... how touched I am that she thought of me and how sorry I am that she will be leaving us soon.
Kathy and I have been friends almost 20 years, since we were 15. We've been through a lot over the years and had even lost touch for a brief while, as sometimes happens. We never stopped being friends and she has always had a place in my heart.
Unfortunately, Kathy's mother is in hospice care with the final stages of brain cancer. She is for the most part still pretty lucid, but does "wander off" more and more. She's a wonderful person - very warm and funny. The last year has been a gift, as the doctors didn't think she was going to be with us for this long.
Well, Kathy called me today to tell me that she had a message for me from her mother. She then read me the sweetest, most heart felt message I ever heard! She said "...I'm glad you're back with Kathy. You've always been a good friend and looked out for her. Take care of her when I'm gone. Go to Friendly's (an ice cream parlor we used to walk to when we were kids) like you used to and stay away from Sutters (a neighborhood bar - she doesn't want Kathy to drink away her sorrow). I love you." Of course, we both started bawling. I am truly touched that in her mothers final moments, where she is thinking of the people in her life, that I, of all people, should come into her mind.
Mrs. O is fully aware of what is happening and is at peace with it. She is just now saying her goodbye's and I hope Kathy has some comfort in her mother's serenity. She is a wonderful woman and I will miss her terribly.
I just can't seem to get this out of my head and wanted to share. Thank you for listening.
Kathy and I have been friends almost 20 years, since we were 15. We've been through a lot over the years and had even lost touch for a brief while, as sometimes happens. We never stopped being friends and she has always had a place in my heart.
Unfortunately, Kathy's mother is in hospice care with the final stages of brain cancer. She is for the most part still pretty lucid, but does "wander off" more and more. She's a wonderful person - very warm and funny. The last year has been a gift, as the doctors didn't think she was going to be with us for this long.
Well, Kathy called me today to tell me that she had a message for me from her mother. She then read me the sweetest, most heart felt message I ever heard! She said "...I'm glad you're back with Kathy. You've always been a good friend and looked out for her. Take care of her when I'm gone. Go to Friendly's (an ice cream parlor we used to walk to when we were kids) like you used to and stay away from Sutters (a neighborhood bar - she doesn't want Kathy to drink away her sorrow). I love you." Of course, we both started bawling. I am truly touched that in her mothers final moments, where she is thinking of the people in her life, that I, of all people, should come into her mind.
Mrs. O is fully aware of what is happening and is at peace with it. She is just now saying her goodbye's and I hope Kathy has some comfort in her mother's serenity. She is a wonderful woman and I will miss her terribly.
I just can't seem to get this out of my head and wanted to share. Thank you for listening.