- Joined
- Nov 9, 2008
- Messages
- 131
- Purraise
- 4
I don't know that this should be a behavior thread per se, it's more my problem, I know. I got a cat about two weeks ago. He was very loving and sweet (about a year old). And he still can be. But he is also quick to be crotchety. He will randomly get irritated and growl and try to bite, even if he's just being petted normally and decides he's done with it. And just basically doesn't act like the sweet cat he was at first.
Today I tried to clip his nails, and he had an absolute fit. I've clipped many cats' nails, so I'm not unfamiliar with the process. I tried wrapping him in a towel and leaving one paw sticking out, but he would draw his paw back sharply, growl, hiss, and I was afraid he'd bite me.
I realize this is 'normal' cat stuff, and I've just been lucky thus far that my past cats weren't so 'normal' (they were more chill and dog like). He's only a year old. I'm afraid I'm going to spend years and years caring for and paying for this cranky, disagreeable cat and its making me cry. I wanted so much to have the sort of bond with him that I had with two of my old cats, but he's nothing like them. I feel stuck with him, and feel stupid because my boyfriend didn't even want a cat.
The shelter would let me take him back but I'd be so damned embarrassed. I already returned a cat previously (because one day after I got her, one of the strays I was feeding was badly injured, and turned out to be FIV+ and he probably would have been put down if I didnt take him, and I couldn't keep all of them. She was a great cat though.) I've also adopted two other cats there so obviously I'm not just screwing around, but still.
I'm just afraid that it was a bad idea to get a cat and I'm in it for the long haul.
Today I tried to clip his nails, and he had an absolute fit. I've clipped many cats' nails, so I'm not unfamiliar with the process. I tried wrapping him in a towel and leaving one paw sticking out, but he would draw his paw back sharply, growl, hiss, and I was afraid he'd bite me.
I realize this is 'normal' cat stuff, and I've just been lucky thus far that my past cats weren't so 'normal' (they were more chill and dog like). He's only a year old. I'm afraid I'm going to spend years and years caring for and paying for this cranky, disagreeable cat and its making me cry. I wanted so much to have the sort of bond with him that I had with two of my old cats, but he's nothing like them. I feel stuck with him, and feel stupid because my boyfriend didn't even want a cat.
The shelter would let me take him back but I'd be so damned embarrassed. I already returned a cat previously (because one day after I got her, one of the strays I was feeding was badly injured, and turned out to be FIV+ and he probably would have been put down if I didnt take him, and I couldn't keep all of them. She was a great cat though.) I've also adopted two other cats there so obviously I'm not just screwing around, but still.
I'm just afraid that it was a bad idea to get a cat and I'm in it for the long haul.