My husband and I knew each other for 13 months before we got married, but only spent a few weekends together before we moved in together, and actually decided to get married on the night we met (about 6 hours after we were introduced).
Neither of us ws looking to get married at the time, but in hindsight it was probably for the best for us to settle down and quit the partying. I was certainly getting tired of the dating scene, and jokingly told my friend the day before that I was just going to marry the next man who asked me. I lived with someone else for 4 years, and was broken up with him for almost a year when I met my husband.
It kind of just hit both of us, and stuck. He had about 4 hours of cold feet in the first week, but bounced back well. My best friend told me I was a moron, and his buddies had a pool to see how long we would make it.
We have been married for 5 years, have been through numerous crises (extramarital temptation (not acted upon), putting a cat to sleep, serious illnesses, unemployment twice for each of us, near bankruptcy, buying and building a house), and are day-to-day happy and very much in love.
I know it makes no sense, but that's the way it happened. You can never really know until you're there. Sometimes it's just fate, and sometimes you listen.
I am a big believer in fate, and listening to what the uncontrolled events in your life are telling you. Many good things in my life have seemed like silly decisions at the time, and if I had used only my logic, I would have missed out on so many things.
Didn't plan to get all philosophical there... oh well.
Julie
Neither of us ws looking to get married at the time, but in hindsight it was probably for the best for us to settle down and quit the partying. I was certainly getting tired of the dating scene, and jokingly told my friend the day before that I was just going to marry the next man who asked me. I lived with someone else for 4 years, and was broken up with him for almost a year when I met my husband.
It kind of just hit both of us, and stuck. He had about 4 hours of cold feet in the first week, but bounced back well. My best friend told me I was a moron, and his buddies had a pool to see how long we would make it.
We have been married for 5 years, have been through numerous crises (extramarital temptation (not acted upon), putting a cat to sleep, serious illnesses, unemployment twice for each of us, near bankruptcy, buying and building a house), and are day-to-day happy and very much in love.
I know it makes no sense, but that's the way it happened. You can never really know until you're there. Sometimes it's just fate, and sometimes you listen.
I am a big believer in fate, and listening to what the uncontrolled events in your life are telling you. Many good things in my life have seemed like silly decisions at the time, and if I had used only my logic, I would have missed out on so many things.
Didn't plan to get all philosophical there... oh well.
Julie