My kitty Kiki has feline herpes and pseudomonas ( finally got rid of bordatella). She is 3 years old and has been sick for about 3 months. On 2 different antibiotics and famciclovir (for herpes virus) some Lysene goop. They've tried 5 different antibiotics now. I stopped the clemastine (walhist or Tavist). I may start over-the-counter nose drops (little noses per the vet recommendation) although I am certain they won't go over well with her. She's been to internal medicine specialist. She's had nasal flush which helped for about 10 days, and biopsies which show some permanent damage but not all permanent damage. I try putting her in bathroom with humidifier to loosen the congestion but am not sure if it helps much. She still eats and drinks. I can only keep her somewhat stress free as she hates the meds and is terrified of thunder (now daily occurrence here in Orlando). My question is if anyone has stopped treatment and had to put their kitty down. I can't stand doing all this too her and she is not getting rid of the psueudamonas. It simply kills me to watch her suffer. She was sick when I brought her home from the shelter as a kitten and didn't have a normal temperature until she was over 2 years old. She had feline bartonella when she was young which we zapped with steroids. She is on hypoallergenic cat food because anything in the way of normal food or treats gives her granulomas. It has just been one thing or another for her since birth. Am I being fair to her?????