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Hi. I need any tips I can get on how to get my kitty back into my house. First I'll give you a little back history.
Almost a year ago, I found a group of cats that had been abandoned on the road by my house. I ended up keeping 3 of them; 2 from the same litter, and another one, Mikey, from another. At first, I wasn't prepared to bring these guys into my house, as I had never had a pet before and wasn't set up for them, so I ended up looking after them (feeding them and such) during the summer months, before finally bringing them inside in September. Since the beginning, Mike has always been very skittish around us, yet very comfortable with his kitty brothers. He's definitely gotten better, allowing us the occasional petting session, but he still hates being picked up. I've always had the feeling that he had a little bit of feral-ness in him. All in all though, once he was inside, he always seemed very content, and never tried to get out. He has never been outside since he was brought in last September. Long story short, over the weekend, on Fathers Day, Mikey was spooked by my aunts puppies, and ended up getting out through the back door. I am so upset by all of this, because I know that it is not going to be easy getting him back inside. I've tried a few different (unsuccessful) methods so far, and have slept about 4 hours in the last 3 days. All 3 nights so far, he's showed up on my doorstep, (so I know he hasn't gone too far) as I've had food sitting out for him, but he's been scared off by me as I try to get him to come in. He's scared easily by noises, but I don't know any other way to get him inside, other than waiting until I see him then opening my door. Leaving it open isn't really an option, because I live in the woods, and who knows what else could get in. Just last night, I also saw on the surveillance cameras I have set up, that there is now another cat in the area, who came up and ate them food I had set up.
Another long story short, I am just looking for any good tips from those with experience, on how I can get this timid, skittish kitty back into my house, so I can give him kisses and then take away his phone privileges for the week for making me worry so much. I just worry that he prefers the outside to my house, and doesn't want to come back, which is NOT AN OPTION whether he likes it or not.
To anyone who actually read all that, THANK YOU, and I look forward to hearing any ideas!
xoxo Melissa
Almost a year ago, I found a group of cats that had been abandoned on the road by my house. I ended up keeping 3 of them; 2 from the same litter, and another one, Mikey, from another. At first, I wasn't prepared to bring these guys into my house, as I had never had a pet before and wasn't set up for them, so I ended up looking after them (feeding them and such) during the summer months, before finally bringing them inside in September. Since the beginning, Mike has always been very skittish around us, yet very comfortable with his kitty brothers. He's definitely gotten better, allowing us the occasional petting session, but he still hates being picked up. I've always had the feeling that he had a little bit of feral-ness in him. All in all though, once he was inside, he always seemed very content, and never tried to get out. He has never been outside since he was brought in last September. Long story short, over the weekend, on Fathers Day, Mikey was spooked by my aunts puppies, and ended up getting out through the back door. I am so upset by all of this, because I know that it is not going to be easy getting him back inside. I've tried a few different (unsuccessful) methods so far, and have slept about 4 hours in the last 3 days. All 3 nights so far, he's showed up on my doorstep, (so I know he hasn't gone too far) as I've had food sitting out for him, but he's been scared off by me as I try to get him to come in. He's scared easily by noises, but I don't know any other way to get him inside, other than waiting until I see him then opening my door. Leaving it open isn't really an option, because I live in the woods, and who knows what else could get in. Just last night, I also saw on the surveillance cameras I have set up, that there is now another cat in the area, who came up and ate them food I had set up.
Another long story short, I am just looking for any good tips from those with experience, on how I can get this timid, skittish kitty back into my house, so I can give him kisses and then take away his phone privileges for the week for making me worry so much. I just worry that he prefers the outside to my house, and doesn't want to come back, which is NOT AN OPTION whether he likes it or not.
To anyone who actually read all that, THANK YOU, and I look forward to hearing any ideas!
xoxo Melissa