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What do you think about what microsoft is doing. I think it is a good idea! Story from cp24.com

Chatter Boxed





The idea sounded innocent enough. You log on, enter a designated area of cyberspace, and chat. It soon became clear, however, that sexual predators were using the technology to lure young people into conversations of a sexual nature, and sometimes, face-to-face meetings, often with dreadful results.

Such problems prompted Microsoft to announce it's planning to close some of its chat rooms in October. It was a move that couldn't have come soon enough for Toronto Sex Crimes Unit detectives, who are currently hosting a child exploitation conference in Toronto.

Det. Paul Gillespie has seen first hand what goes on in the rooms. “In the last several months, I have an officer who does nothing but pose as a young girl on-line. Within moments of him entering one of these chat rooms, it's like a feeding frenzy. He'll be engaged in ten different conversations with men believing they're chatting with a young girl, often immediately getting very graphic in describing sexual acts they want them to perform, and asking ‘Can you meet me?’â€

Delegates at the conference are applauding Microsoft's decision, hoping it will set a precedent that will protect children.

“I guess our challenge now is to the other Internet providers to step up to the plate and have the kids in mind first,†said Staff Inspector Bruce Smollet.






September 24, 2003
post #2 of 15
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Originally posted by adymarie
What do you think about what microsoft is doing. I think it is a good idea! Story from cp24.com
This is a great idea, if that's why Microsoft is doing it. On the other hand, I've heard that they are shutting down free sites that don't give any profit to Microsoft. Protecting children or the bottom line? I'm not so sure.
post #3 of 15
Good for Microsoft, but closing down a chatroom to prevent sexual predators is like trying to plug up a dam with a cork. It isn't enough, but not sure what technology can be developed to stop this problem. I think you need to put some responsibility back onto parents to know what sites their children are getting into and counseling them on what is inappropriate. Easily said, not so easily done.
post #4 of 15
I like chatting on chat rooms, but if this is what Microsoft has to do- it's fine with me, I still have TCS!
post #5 of 15
Like Momofmany said, it is like plugging a dam with a cork, no matter if they close their chatrooms, there will be other chatrooms (and still are) for sexual predators to troll, looking for victims.

Sam - please be careful in chatrooms will you?
post #6 of 15
I don't think closing a few chatrooms will do much good. I think the main responsibility for keeping kids safe from sexual predators lies with the parents. I think parents should set and enforce strict rules regarding their kids' use of the internet.

Sam, I agree with Kellye, be very very careful. For one thing, I have read too many stories about kids getting killed because they went off alone to meet an online friend (who was really a sexual predator) in person. You can never be sure of who you're really talking to in a chatroom.

post #7 of 15
Tucson has a cop, who is very good at impersonating a 13 or 14 year old girl. He has been able to snag some pretty nasty characters. Recently, he set up sting that nailed a doctor, who travelled here to have sex with what he thought was a 14-year-old girl. Was he surprised to be met by a 40-odd-year-old cop!
post #8 of 15
I totally agree with Lorie. MSN closing a few chatrooms is nice, but isn't going to do any good. There are still umpteen companies with chatrooms. The responsibility of monitoring does lie with the parents. Just because it's the computer and not the real world doesn't mean they shouldn't be supervised.
post #9 of 15
Come to think of it, when I was at the gym the other day, I read a magazine and it had an article about two teenage girls who taught cops how to talk like a teenage girl - they were on the team for the FBI that catches that kind of person. It was very interesting.
post #10 of 15
Kellye, I saw that article, too. I think that its a good idea - nail these perverts BEFORE they get to a kid!
post #11 of 15
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Originally posted by Momofmany
Good for Microsoft, but closing down a chatroom to prevent sexual predators is like trying to plug up a dam with a cork. It isn't enough, but not sure what technology can be developed to stop this problem. I think you need to put some responsibility back onto parents to know what sites their children are getting into and counseling them on what is inappropriate. Easily said, not so easily done.
My thoughts also. And it's not just sexual predators you have to worry about. I teach teenagers, and have heard a number of girls report negative experiences in that regard. I recently learned that there are chat rooms and forums for anorexics and bulimics, where kids, mainly girls, discuss the best ways to make themselves puke, the most effective laxatives, how to ingest 200 calories a day, etc.. As a former anorexic (at 16, I was 5'6'' and 82 lbs. - a classmate's death from anorexia was the only thing that made me wise up) and a secondary school teacher who regularly witnesses eating disorders, I was really shaken. The last thing these kids need is confirmation and tips! This past year, there was a case here in Germany where a would-be cannibal met his willing (later) victim via the Web. I'm not in favor of censorship, but.... a bit of parental guidance is called for. While Microsoft's decision may very well have been powered by its failure to earn money with chat rooms, and the deviants will simply seek other outlets (how many chat rooms and forums are out there?), perhaps it will make parents a bit more aware of the hazards presented. My nieces and nephews complain that they can't access chat rooms and forums from school, but I really can't blame their schools.
post #12 of 15
kudos to microsoft!!
post #13 of 15
I'm for anything that stops sexual predators who go after kids. I was watching a tech show one day and the guest said that he foresaw a day where signing on to the internet would require identity verfication and that all users would require a "license". Screen names would all be easily traceable via the authorities, etc. He had a whole complicated plan for implementing this and it would also require a annual users fee to get on the internet. That's an awful lot like Big Brother getting into all of our business, but I don't know how else this kind of thing can really be stopped.
post #14 of 15
Why do people always get paranoid as soon as computers are involved?

Having kids talk in chatrooms unsupervised, is no more or less dangererous than letting them out of the house unsupervised.

I don't have any kids myself, but I am guessing responsible parents do not let their children go out of the house on their own before they are ready.
And certainly not without teaching them the basics, like "do not talk to strangers, do not go with stangers and don't get in the car with strangers, not even when they promise you a kitten".

Chatrooms are not that much different.
If you teach your children what could happen and how to recognize the signs (like the kitten in real life), you can prevent a lot.

Granted, you can't prevent everything, but the same goes for letting them out of the house.

Getting rid of all chatrooms or demanding all sorts of identification only to prevent something that MIGHT happen, is just as extreme as locking a child in its room until the age of 21.

Just my 2c worth.
post #15 of 15
Yes. I am careful and always will be.

I would never meet someone that I have talked to on the net.. well actually I have asked one person and that's Kellye, but it's different. Thanks for caring guys.

*hugs*
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