I have invited you to dinner at our house. Dinner is at 6:30, but you're welcome to show up at any time.
What time would you come? Early? Late? Fashionably late? On time?
The reason I'm asking is because people were talking about this on another board and I wondered. Most people said that they would show up right on time because, if they were cooking, they wouldn't want guests coming early and offering to help. They were extremely offended by that gesture.
Me? I'd come early, about 10-15 minutes or so and offer to see if there was anything I could do. Putting ice in glasses, filling glasses, helping with last-minute prep work, all kind of stuff. And if we were having dinner with good friends and family, I'd show up even earlier (but then with permission) to help, too.
So if you say you'd come early, that's more than fine with me. As long as you realize that I'd probably put you to work!
Seriously when we have dinners here, most people do come early. And they hang out in the kitchen, mixing drinks or helping out. And I like it that way. I don't want to be in the kitchen by myself when everybody is in the living room or outside having all the fun. Some of the best times I've had are when people are hanging out with me in the kitchen. It doesn't bother me.
What do you think?
What time would you come? Early? Late? Fashionably late? On time?
The reason I'm asking is because people were talking about this on another board and I wondered. Most people said that they would show up right on time because, if they were cooking, they wouldn't want guests coming early and offering to help. They were extremely offended by that gesture.
Me? I'd come early, about 10-15 minutes or so and offer to see if there was anything I could do. Putting ice in glasses, filling glasses, helping with last-minute prep work, all kind of stuff. And if we were having dinner with good friends and family, I'd show up even earlier (but then with permission) to help, too.
So if you say you'd come early, that's more than fine with me. As long as you realize that I'd probably put you to work!
Seriously when we have dinners here, most people do come early. And they hang out in the kitchen, mixing drinks or helping out. And I like it that way. I don't want to be in the kitchen by myself when everybody is in the living room or outside having all the fun. Some of the best times I've had are when people are hanging out with me in the kitchen. It doesn't bother me.
What do you think?