Run Free, my beautiful Abby

forpaws

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Hi everyone - new poster here.

My 17 1/2 year old calico, Abby, left this world this morning.  She started showing some signs of distress last night, and I just hoped she could make it till morning so we could get to the vet. But when morning hit, she was even weaker, and couldn't even stand up, and I knew. I had always promised her I would not let her suffer but that she needed to let me know when she'd had enough, and after a long talk with the vet, who did not feel she would likely rebound even with IVs, etc., I felt that she had given me that message. I had to make that agonizing decision to help her cross the Bridge.

It was the most heartbreaking decision I have ever made. I have second guessed myself all day - but deep in my heart, I know it was right.

I have 4 other cats, all about 8 years old, but they are not my girl. It's amazing how much noise Abby must have made because the house is just silent except for the tv. I don't ever remember it being this quiet.

This is Abby - taken about 3 weeks ago.  A beautiful and classy little ole lady all the way to the end. She was so brave this morning. That's her bee she's next to. She liked to lay on it.


Thanks for reading.....

~Martha
 

kmd

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So sorry Martha... the second guessing is normal...

But it such a terrible thing for a cat owner to have to do.

She's beautfiul
 

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My condolences. Abby had a long life which she left while surrounded by your love, and she couldn't have asked for more. Second guessing yourself is inevitable when making such a decision. You gave her that last gift of love.

RIP, sweet Abby.
 

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I'm so very sorry for your loss, I pray you can take comfort in knowing we care and want to help share in your pain.I know it was heartbreaking for you to comfort Abby in her last moments, and to make that heartbreaking decision, but think how it helped her to be free of her pain and distress. She is at peace now, young and spry again at the Rainbow Bridge, she will live forever in your heart. RIP beautiful Abby!
 
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