Pray for my Grandma.....

Originally posted by kidsncats
I'm so glad to hear she came through sugergy OK and that they think they got it all!

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She came through Ok, but as for getting all the cancer I wont know that untill all the tests come back. My aunt will be home tonight or tommorow, I'll let you know what she found out if the docs did the tests or not.

Originally posted by Jellybelly
keeping our paws crossed! and you do have a sense of fashion style

Love the 'gothic' 'medieval' look

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I do now, not then. My hair was kept straight,bangs curled,and hair between ears and shoulder length....clothing...well I wont go there...*gag* Thanks for the compliment

Thrilled that your Grandma has come through - she looks like a lovely lady in the pic, glad you could share it with us.
All the very best

"the past and future do not exist. There is only now and that is what there always has been and always will be"

Originally posted by tulip2454
Thrilled that your Grandma has come through - she looks like a lovely lady in the pic, glad you could share it with us.
All the very best

"the past and future do not exist. There is only now and that is what there always has been and always will be"

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Thanks! (I'd give her the compliment, but I'd be the next one in the hospital if I did She hates photos)

Originally posted by Gothic_Amethyst

she eats nothing but bacon tommatoe sandwhiches and uses tooooooo much manaise and butter on stuff. She never will listen to me that she should eat healthier. That's one thing that always worried me...she doesnt try to take care of herself.

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Hopefully the doctors will talk to her about taking better care of her health.

Thanks for sharing that nice picture of you and your grandma, and I'm so glad everything went well during her surgery.

hey, I was going to PM you with a pic of my grandmother, but it didn't work, so I am going to put it here, if that's ok...My grandmother I miss her so much...

Oh GA- That's fantastic news about your grandma-- Shame though- coz she does look sweet!

Originally posted by Lorie D.
Originally posted by Gothic_Amethyst

Hopefully the doctors will talk to her about taking better care of her health.

Thanks for sharing that nice picture of you and your grandma, and I'm so glad everything went well during her surgery.

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They wont if she doesnt tell them how unhealthy she eats. Hopefully they will figure that out by looking at her weight.
I figured people would like to see her face.

Originally posted by caprice
hey, I was going to PM you with a pic of my grandmother, but it didn't work, so I am going to put it here, if that's ok...My grandmother

I miss her so much...

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It's Ok. I'm sorry you lost her. *hugs*

Originally posted by WellingtonCats
Oh GA- That's fantastic news about your grandma-- Shame though- coz she does look sweet!

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I know what you mean

im glad to hear that your grandma is doing okay, she does look very sweet, and btw dont be so hard on yourself i thought you looked very nice in that pic. i mean that

Hey my Gothie Gurl! I like the picture of you and grandma! You look so young there! Your grandma is a pretty woman and I think you look a lot like her!

Originally posted by dougbug
btw dont be so hard on yourself i thought you looked very nice in that pic. i mean that

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You have no idea how many times I've heard that...Noone likes old photos, but I do have a confidence problem(**** parents!!!)Lyle's been working on that with me.

Originally posted by mzjazz2u
Hey my Gothie Gurl! I like the picture of you and grandma! You look so young there! Your grandma is a pretty woman and I think you look a lot like her!

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Hey!! Thanks for the compliments *blush*
It was 2000 and I'm 20 now....(I suck at math so you'll have to do the math to see how old I was. I've changed alot since I moved back here with Grandma.

Lyle and I are going out Saturday. I wont be home untill around midnight. I'll probably be too tired to post, but I will ASAP Sunday.
Just letting you know so you dont think something happened.

UPDATE: My aunt Nancy decided to stay the night. She said Grandma's blood pressure dropped majorly, but that they fixed it. It was still low, but should go up eventually. Nancy said she's talked and seems Ok and her color wasnt bad. So mabye that means she's gonna be OK?
Keep praying like I am(if you can) because I thought it was pretty much over untill Nancy told me about the blood pressure. Looks like it's not over yet and I get to worry longer

Sofar so good. My aunt got to come home today since Grandma was put into a regular room and seemed normal to the docs. Nancy said she will probably be home tuesday/wednesday and then will have to go back for check-up, tests, and to remove the stitches. Thanks for your continued prayers. I will update you if anything else happens.

~¤~ The 30th is the end on my AOL free trial again. If I dont post after then, than I lost internet for now. I WILL BE BACK. It may take some time with Grandma not working (due to the surgery) and me not 'cause cause I cant get hired . Oh and I wont be home tommorrow. All weekend I've been helping Lyle and his family move. The new house is cool, but it's an extra 15 mins farther from where they were....grrrr why couldnt they moved 15 mins closer to me? LOL. Oh well.

Grandma's home!!!! She's weak, annoyed and in pain since she hasnt been able to take much pain killer. She seems depressed and has said she'd rather died of the cancer than to have went through all this. I'm going to cook super and I'm gonna have to make her eat it because she doesnt want to eat anything. I know she needs to eat healthier than she did before. She has had a couple stitches come out and bleed and she has taped them up and stuff like they said to do. I'm not sure when she had to go back and get them removed. I'll update again if something else happens. Right now I'm trying to not think about this much. I feel if I focus on the chores and everything I wont end up crying. Thanks for the continued prayers. We all need them.

Lots of hugs to you, hang in there, she'll be a bit bitter from the surgery and everything, so just continue being 'nice' and comfort her even though she may pretend she doesn't want anything from you. In the end, she'll thank you.

Originally posted by Jellybelly
Lots of hugs to you, hang in there, she'll be a bit bitter from the surgery and everything, so just continue being 'nice' and comfort her even though she may pretend she doesn't want anything from you. In the end, she'll thank you.

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I figured it would make her bitter. Since she's snapped at me more than usual. I'm doing my best to be 'nice' and control my emotions. I just want to scream untill I lose my voice and cry in Lyle's arms untill I cant anymore. I cant though. She needs me. For now, I must do my chores and take care of the house. I'll just be glad when the 'I'm gonna do something wrong/walking on eggshells feeling is gone'.

Glad she's home GA but oh I feel sorry for you, I hope she realises how much you are doing for her?

No offence or anything