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Here is the situation. I have 5 well adjusted happy cats. My backyard borders up with a field and an old farm. Since my wife and I moved into the house 3 years ago, a cat has been coming to our back patio to "visit" our cats. Until recently, the cat looked healthy and we figured it was owned by a neighbor. (Many of our neighbors have cats they let out during the warm seasons.) However, the cat now looks thin and is asking for food. So we have started feeding it and are starting to wonder if its a stray ?
The farm was owned by an old man who passed away during the spring and we are wondering if it was his cat ? Nobody in our area seems to know were the cat came from. Bottom line: Its Fall now and we are not about to make it spend the winter outside if it doesn't have a home to go to. It seems friendly, but get too close and you will get scratched. Its very weird ....It meows and rolls on its belly like its looking for attention. However, if you reach out to pat the cat you will get scratched.
Options: We adopt the cat. The only problem is we really can't take a 6th cat. I'm afraid this one will be the one that breaks our happy cat society. (spraying, fighting, etc etc) Two of our males hiss and spit out the window when it visits. The other 3 just like to watch.
I refuse to take it to a shelter. The ones in our area put down cats if they are not adopted within 60 days. Nobody I know wants another cat and the rescue groups in our area want you to foster home the cat.
My wife thinks we should just feed it outside and treat it like an outdoor cat. Sure...thats ok when its warm, but what about when its Jan and 20 degrees outside.
What to do !!! Any advice !!! I'm not sure it will let me pick it up.
Here is the situation. I have 5 well adjusted happy cats. My backyard borders up with a field and an old farm. Since my wife and I moved into the house 3 years ago, a cat has been coming to our back patio to "visit" our cats. Until recently, the cat looked healthy and we figured it was owned by a neighbor. (Many of our neighbors have cats they let out during the warm seasons.) However, the cat now looks thin and is asking for food. So we have started feeding it and are starting to wonder if its a stray ?
The farm was owned by an old man who passed away during the spring and we are wondering if it was his cat ? Nobody in our area seems to know were the cat came from. Bottom line: Its Fall now and we are not about to make it spend the winter outside if it doesn't have a home to go to. It seems friendly, but get too close and you will get scratched. Its very weird ....It meows and rolls on its belly like its looking for attention. However, if you reach out to pat the cat you will get scratched.
Options: We adopt the cat. The only problem is we really can't take a 6th cat. I'm afraid this one will be the one that breaks our happy cat society. (spraying, fighting, etc etc) Two of our males hiss and spit out the window when it visits. The other 3 just like to watch.
I refuse to take it to a shelter. The ones in our area put down cats if they are not adopted within 60 days. Nobody I know wants another cat and the rescue groups in our area want you to foster home the cat.
My wife thinks we should just feed it outside and treat it like an outdoor cat. Sure...thats ok when its warm, but what about when its Jan and 20 degrees outside.
What to do !!! Any advice !!! I'm not sure it will let me pick it up.