Hi, I'm new to the forum and would love some feedback about a stray I've named Sophie. Sophie showed up at my condo complex in mid-December, starving. We were able to catch her and determine she was not chipped. She was very affectionate until I fed her and she no longer was hungry. This began a three-month period of very slowly gaining her trust. Two steps forward, one step back. Finally, in mid-March I brought her into my home after making the spare bedroom her safe room. Over the next several weeks, she calmed down and is back to loving her petting and rarely hiding. On two occasions she has lashed out during petting, hissing and swatting at me, and once drawing blood. no big deal. i didn't react. I figured she was overstimulated and i had missed the signs. have two rescues, also female, who have been sniffing under the door. i rubbed their scents on fabric and all have become familiar with each others' scents. About two weeks ago, I began leaving the door open. My rescues have spent time in her room (with Sophie hiding in the closet) to sniff around, with the occasional hiss. Sophie hasn't hissed, just the rescues. They have stopped going into her room, but do peer at her through the open door. Sophie has begun to explore the hallway, going a little farther each time, before running back into her safe room. The rescues continue to hiss at her from a distance. Recently, things began to deteriorate. Last week, Sophie charged at my "alpha" rescue twice (in the hallway), stopping just short of her and running back into her room. Then last night, I was petting Sophie and she was purring, when suddenly she ran out into the hallway and attacked Sophie as she was walking by (and not hissing). The altercation didn't last long. A bit of fur flew, and then Sophie returned to her room. This is after living in my home for a month, now. I didn't react negatively. I was matter of fact about it so as not to stir them up further. Sophie also gets upset in the night, plaintively meowing. I sometimes get up and give her pets to calm her down. This morning she seemed more skittish than normal. Her progress continues to be two steps up, one step back.
My concern is that Sophie will not learn to live in peace and harmony with my other two female cats, and vice versa. They are 8 now, and the vet said Sophie is 3 or 4. How much time should I give them before giving up? Is there anything I can do to help the process? Sophie eats and sleeps in her safe room. She has her own litter box and toys. I have put Feliway in her room and my bedroom, which is where the other two spend the majority of their time. it's been a month and she doesn't venture far from her safe room. And she acts aggressively toward my other kitty. They are not aggressive toward her, other than the defensive growling.
Thanks for any advice! I don't want to give her up.
My concern is that Sophie will not learn to live in peace and harmony with my other two female cats, and vice versa. They are 8 now, and the vet said Sophie is 3 or 4. How much time should I give them before giving up? Is there anything I can do to help the process? Sophie eats and sleeps in her safe room. She has her own litter box and toys. I have put Feliway in her room and my bedroom, which is where the other two spend the majority of their time. it's been a month and she doesn't venture far from her safe room. And she acts aggressively toward my other kitty. They are not aggressive toward her, other than the defensive growling.
Thanks for any advice! I don't want to give her up.