I have a question and I'm going to do my best not to be rude in asking. My uncle married a very nice German woman who has now been in the family for 15 years. My question is about what is polite in other countries.
My aunt has an obsession with how much things cost. She has no qualms about point blank asking how much anything in my home or on my person cost. She has pointedly asked how much money my husband makes, how much my ex husband pays me in child support, she even asked about our tax refunds.
She also critisizes my parenting. This in itself doesn't bother me so much honestly, it's the way she does it. I am strict I admit, and I expect my children to behave but I view this as a good thing honestly. The best example I have is my 7 year old has gotten to the mouthy stage. When she mouths off she has to write sentences. My aunt apparently thinks this is cruel and unusual punishment and makes no bones about telling me so. I do NOT think it's acceptable for my 7 year old daughter to be snotty to my 75 year old grandmother, so she wrote sentences, 50 of them and apologized to my grandmother.
Other than these and a few other habits my aunt is truly a lovely woman, and I really think her heart is in the right place. I'm just wondering how much of this is acceptable in other countries. If I'm being over sensitive I want to know so I can try to cool it.
Thanks!
My aunt has an obsession with how much things cost. She has no qualms about point blank asking how much anything in my home or on my person cost. She has pointedly asked how much money my husband makes, how much my ex husband pays me in child support, she even asked about our tax refunds.
She also critisizes my parenting. This in itself doesn't bother me so much honestly, it's the way she does it. I am strict I admit, and I expect my children to behave but I view this as a good thing honestly. The best example I have is my 7 year old has gotten to the mouthy stage. When she mouths off she has to write sentences. My aunt apparently thinks this is cruel and unusual punishment and makes no bones about telling me so. I do NOT think it's acceptable for my 7 year old daughter to be snotty to my 75 year old grandmother, so she wrote sentences, 50 of them and apologized to my grandmother.
Other than these and a few other habits my aunt is truly a lovely woman, and I really think her heart is in the right place. I'm just wondering how much of this is acceptable in other countries. If I'm being over sensitive I want to know so I can try to cool it.
Thanks!