I have a silly little question

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Why is it, that most of us ladies can admit when another woman is pretty or even beautiful, but most men can't admit when another man is handsome or attractive?

For example: I tell the man in my life, that I think Catherine Zeta Jones is a beautiful woman. He says yes, she is. Then I ask him if he thinks Antonio Bandares is a hansome man, and he tells me, he's unable tell whether he's handsome or not, because he's a man.

Are men all that worried about their sexuality that they refuse to see whether another man is a good looking man?
 

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I think it's more of the fact of they really don't think about it. Since you know they say men think about sex like what every 5 seconds lol their minds are else where
where as us women tend to let our minds expand further then just sports and sex
and women are far more competitive when it comes to looks. Men can get up in the morning throw on some sweats and a baseball cap and call themselves looking good. and not think twice if they are sitting across from another man whose wearing a suit and tie. Where us women would feel a little akward
 

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I think it's more of the fact of they really don't think about it. Since you know they say men think about sex like what every 5 seconds lol their minds are else where
where as us women tend to let our minds expand further then just sports and sex
 

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I think it's because most straight men are homophobic. I also think that most men are missing that sensitive side of their brain. . . . the one that allows them to appreciate anything besides fast cars, women, sports, and food in their bellies. . . . must have something to do with the way they are wired. . .

I'm not saying that ALL men are like this. . . . I prefer the man who has a more intelligent, sensitive side. . . . they are hard to find though!

I also think it may have something to do with feeling inferior. . . or jealous of any man that might be better looking than themselves. . .
 

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My husband and I have a long-standing joke between us. If we're out in public, I will point out a good looking woman to him and he will try (and I say "try") to point out good looking men to me. The joke is on the line of: "doesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you eat at home" (oops, this is turning into an adult post). The funny thing is, my husband can't pick out good looking men at all! I'm convinced they (or at least he) doesn't have a clue.....
 

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Well , my husband know when a man is better looking them him . But he only notice that if that man may look at me and I at him .
. I on the other hand see all the time pretty woman and don't mind if they look better then me .I atmitt it and personaly really don't care if they do or not .
 

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My husband doesn't really point out good looking men but he knows my type. So if we are watching a movie he will say that is your type right
My type is fairly easy to spot though! Sting, Tim Daily (from Wings), That guys that played maguyver (spelling?)
Luckly I have one of those strange men that like cruvey women and there aren't many of those out there anymore. most of the women that were in movies have now turned into sticks! Although i'm alittle more cruvey then I used to be
need to work on that!
 
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