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Hi...I have posted a couple of times before....1st time feral Mom needs advice. I need honest advice whether our CC is a good editon to our home?...or if she would be better in a home with no other animals or small children.This Wed will be three weeks since we brought this feral beauty into our home. We suspect she was born on the street. Found in my sister's neighborhood. A kind lady who does TNR in the neighborhood thought she was adoptable and actively sought a home for her. I look this to this group since I have NEVER attemtped to socialize a feral. CC is really only the 3rd cat I have had in my adult life.Initially, CC showed some aggression, but slowly seemed to bond to me and make a connection to my husband. Over the last couple of days, my adult son began to interact with her. (She DID attempt to bite him a few times.) My daughther has some physical special needs and is only 5 years old. Her exposure to the cat has been minimal, but CC seems to be OK with the noise level in my home....thanks to the addition on Feliway and lots of one on one time.I should now mention that CC is NOW scheduled to have an incisional hernia repair on March 19th. My big fear is that CC will regress and become aggressive once again. I sought some advice as to the next step I should take...no answers in this forum.Following the advice of the lady who gave CC to us (and who knows the situation) , I decided to allow CC and my resident kitty, Pierce to sniff each other very a gait/baracade. I must mention, our resident male kitty Pierce immediately started hissing and growling, but we figured that was part of him defending his home. While tending to my daughter, CC (who is very smart BTW) scaled the baracade and wandered into the rest of the house (downstairs). CC charged my declawed Pierce (in a running crouching positon) and attacked his face...biting and swatting. She retreated back upstairs when my Pierce ran in the living room and my son stood in the doorway. She is now safely back in her room to calm down. Although now, she has had a taste of freedom, and is nervously scratching to door and carpet despite the Feliway diffuser.I know it was the first intro, but that was one of the most vicious ambushes I have ever witnessed. Is that the precursor to more aggressive behavior? Does CC simply need more time to "warm" up to Pierce? I fear for his safety...and ours....including my daughter. Because of her "wild" previous life, is she just prone to constantly defending her territory? I am heartbroken at the prospect of having to find her a different home...But would she be better off in a quieter home where she could be the Queen she is fighting to be? Our home has many stressors that may prove to be too much for a feral.