It's happened again, the second time we've been invited to the wedding of a dear friend (of 30 years), just my husband and I. We have a kid and it wouldn't be a problem except the weddings were and are 1,000 miles and 2,000 miles away, respectively. Our daughter was almost 12 last time and is 14 now, a well-behaved and intelligent girl. She's not old enough to leave at home alone, and leaving her here with friends for 4-5 days would be too much of a burden for them. There are hotel sitters, but do you really want to leave your kid alone with a stranger? Or do you leave her alone in a big city hotel room?
Maybe she'll use those 2 nights in the hotel room making up school work for the days she is missing so she can sit in a hotel room. Kind of sad, on the weekend while everyone else is at dinners and parties.
At any rate, it sure makes things complicated for people who want to come to your wedding and are willing to buy 3 plane tickets, rental car, 4 nights in a hotel, and a gift.
I know, I know, the wedding day is all about the bride, it's completely her choice who gets to come to her wedding.
What do you think? How do you feel about this trend? (You can click multiple answers on the poll.)
Maybe she'll use those 2 nights in the hotel room making up school work for the days she is missing so she can sit in a hotel room. Kind of sad, on the weekend while everyone else is at dinners and parties.
At any rate, it sure makes things complicated for people who want to come to your wedding and are willing to buy 3 plane tickets, rental car, 4 nights in a hotel, and a gift.
I know, I know, the wedding day is all about the bride, it's completely her choice who gets to come to her wedding.
What do you think? How do you feel about this trend? (You can click multiple answers on the poll.)
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