Always yelling at your mate ?

Do u got one of those men who just doesn't listen to you that you have to repeat everything all the time ?

I do.  He just takes it in one ear and out the other. Actually I have to admit, I do all the yelling.

dejolane

I don't really yell at my husband. He knows I'm irked when he gets the silent treatment. You know, one word answers... "how are you?" "FINE."  "Do you need me to do anything?" "NO."  "Are you mad at me?" ....silence. Yeah, he gets the picture pretty quickly. 

calico2222 said:

I don't really yell at my husband. He knows I'm irked when he gets the silent treatment. You know, one word answers... "how are you?" "FINE."  "Do you need me to do anything?" "NO."  "Are you mad at me?" ....silence. Yeah, he gets the picture pretty quickly. 

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Yep me and Blaine are like that, we will then talk through whats bothered us to of caused a row to.

I think if your yelling all the time at your partner then maybe you aren't in the right relationship, it doesn't sound to happy

calico2222 said:

I don't really yell at my husband. He knows I'm irked when he gets the silent treatment. You know, one word answers... "how are you?" "FINE."  "Do you need me to do anything?" "NO."  "Are you mad at me?" ....silence. Yeah, he gets the picture pretty quickly. 

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Ummmm, that would be me, too.

I beginning to think it's a man thing. they just tune you out and don't pay attention.

calico2222 said:

I don't really yell at my husband. He knows I'm irked when he gets the silent treatment. You know, one word answers... "how are you?" "FINE." "Do you need me to do anything?" "NO." "Are you mad at me?" ....silence. Yeah, he gets the picture pretty quickly.

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Winchester said:

Ummmm, that would be me, too.

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me too. I get silent when mad at him and answer him with one word. Sometimes he doesn't notice that I am bothered by something though. Takes him a bit to catch on at times. :lol3: We are not big yellers as that would upset my Pipsqueak and he would go after the dogs thinking they are doing something wrong. Silly cat.

kookycats said:

I beginning to think it's a man thing. they just tune you out and don't pay attention.

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I call it "selective deafness".

kookycats said:

I beginning to think it's a man thing. they just tune you out and don't pay attention.

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You got that right.

dejolane