Next Thursday, September 25th, we have an appointment with a fertility specialist. We have been trying for over 4 years with no success. At least we know what the problem is (I have blocked tubes). Please send positive vibes that he will be able to do something that helps. I am also considering going to a hypnotherapist who specializes in fertility and birth. I will definately use her for the birth. There is nothing I want more then to be the mommy of a little non furry baby (although I love all my furkids with all my heart).