Dominant female stray/ferals

bugmankeith

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I would like to talk about behavior of female strays/ferals because I don't think many of us ever consider a female to be dominant.

In the past my first feral was a white with black female. At first she came around with other cats, male and female. Eventually I found out she had become pregnant when I saw her being chased by 4 males and witnessed one mating with her. Once she became pregnant no females came by anymore, and this female would run up to males and bite them to ensure she ate even though plenty of food was around.

After her first litter I noticed other females came by and were nursing her babies helping, yet these other females never had kittens, so perhaps in cat society only dominant females are allowed to mate? It was the oddest thing I ever saw, unless this cat killed the others kittens to force them to help raise her kittens, clearly this female was very healthy and strong, and so were all her kittens. Her first litter were 2 males, one male became the dominant male in the area even after he was neutered.

Her next litter was 2 girls, one boy. She always favored the female kittens more, one looked like a twin of her and matched her characteristics and personality exactly, with the exception she was used to people. One of her female kittens died unexpectedly, the male vanished, and I was left with the dominant female kitten. At one point her older brother from last generation was friendly with her and that's who she stayed near, her mother and her avoided eachother once she was spayed.

3 rd and final litter came, 2 females 1 male. Again one female died, the male lived and acted more female than male, very docile, and the other female was always chased away, by all other cats, especially the older, dominant sister from last year.
Finally mom got spayed and was the last "new" female to show up she chased away new females while the males chased off new males.

Eventually mom tragically was hit by a car and died, so only 2 females were left. The lower female vanished, and to this day it's just the dominant female "kitten" who looked like mom. She chases males away, has survived very well, and is tough for a girl cat, she definetly takes after her mom and is queen here!

In relation, in the past I adopted a former stray female, she was always chased by males but never became pregnant, she would attack all other cats and was 11 pounds, no lightweight and extremely healthy for a 2 year old stray with no vet care or food! Eventually she was spayed and adopted, but back then she was the only female in our yard and only her got attention from the males, so I do believe females can be dominant and more manly than normal to be queen cat!

My cat sees the friendly female stray from inside, they hate eachother probably because they both were dominant in the area, but they are evenly as tough so they seem to know that and just stare eachother down into retreat.
 

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Interesting thread, I've always been interested in interpersonal relationships and psychology among people and cats.  Cats feel, so it makes sense to me there is some rudimentary logic, psychology behind their action/reactions.

Some of my observations may be skewed because the cat colony I take care of is comprised of abandoned (formerly owned) cats as well as true feral cats (never exposed to humans except when fed).

I took/take care of a feral/stray/community cat colony for over two years.  On a percentage basis, around 50% were feral, 25% use to some human interaction, and 25% abandoned/dumped cats.  I fed them morning and night, every day. 

I moved six months ago; three to eight cats still come to be fed.  A woman feeds them twice during the week and I feed them on the weekends.  The percentage is closer to 75% feral, semi-feral; 25% former house pets who could be successfully resocialized and adopted out to some degree.

When I was feeding the cats every day around 10 came regularly to dine at my restaurant, a/k/a dumpster.  The dominance I saw was mainly related to food; if a new cat came to dine, he/she was accepted only to the degree (a) there was enough food and (b) the new comer waited his/her turn.  If there was not enough food, the new cat was often run away by the other cats.  Also, and I don't know if there is any scientific studies to back this up, if a new cat came to the colony accompanied by an established member, that new cat seemed to be more welcomed, accepted by the other cats.  I personally witnessed this on at least once occasion.

Maybe because I am female, but I often thought most of the cats in the colony were female.  I can't tell you how many times I was proved wrong when I took the cat in to be TNRd, said this cat's name is "Becky" only to have to rename Becky "Bob".

One of the most aggressive cats was a female; she was clearly feral.  And clearly starving.

I TNRd around 35 to 40 cats in a two year period; the overwhelming majority were male.  (Females who constantly are pregnant die young, it's hard on their health).

Maybe I missed something in your post but:  are you getting the cats spayed/neutered?  They seem to get pregnant a lot.  Though I should (not) talk:  it took me two months to trap "Quill"; being a calico I was almost certain Quill was female (at least I guessed the sex of that one correctly).  She eluded the trap, and sure enough two months later, I started feeding her son, "Per Stirpes".  Luckily, he (yes, male) was quicker to trap and TNR.  I still fed Per Stirpes; Quill disappeared when I did.
 

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the only dominant one that i have had at my colony was pretty girl - my former feral - and that was over two years ago. i believe that her dominance was because at that time she she was nursing and she was the oldest cat. all of the others back then were under a year to a year and a half old and she was around four.

since then i have only had two new arrivals and there were no problems regarding food. i assume that the reason for no drama was that all of the existing group knew that there was always more than enough food - no one ever went to bed hungry or didn't have enough breakfast.
 

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I think female cats are always dominant. Male cats are big sissy-pants, LOL.
I agree. All of my females are more dominant that the males. Household and ferals. Of my household cats my female Moe is the boss of all animals in the house including the dog. All she has to do is look at one of the gang and they back right down. Next in line are the 2 other female house cats and low on the totem pole is Charlie and Bandit both male love bugs who want no part of power struggles. The other boys are in the middle of the pack they try to move up that totem pole and one of the females will let out a hiss or a small smack and they just go their own way like ok, ok I get it your boss.

I have a feral Colony outside and the only female is Caly and she clearly rules the roost with all the boys. We laugh because they follow her and they wont eat until she gives them the nod to go ahead.
 

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Old lady used to be dominant, but after she escaped and was recaptured (around a year later) she has not become dominant, not even attempting anymore really. Even her sons go and hush her away from her spot at the times, she does bit of pawing but not much as she runs away.

Now she used to paw everyone on top of their heads, if they did not wait for her to eat etc. but now she is just sitting back until eating.

Smaller female is not much dominant at all, but she is holding her ground, two younger males are most dominant and constantly having small wrestling, bigger males are not much interested of such and another is not even holding his ground, just walks away usually, but when smaller males annoy him enough, then it is fur removal time and I need to intervene.

So currently no dominant females here.
 
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