Clyde's Behavior

clyde

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Let me give a little history:

Clyde is a male/neutered domestic shorthair approximately 11 months old. Due to my medical condition (survivor of sepsis with suppressed immune system), and not wanting to chance any kind of infection due to scratch marks, I reluctantly had to have Clyde declawed. I consulted with a lot of people before reluctantly making the decision. I hope everyone won't be upset with me.

I got Clyde on July 28, and adopted him as an inside only cat. The previous lady had gotten him from a neighbor about July 1, and immediately took him into the vet for surgery (parasite had laid eggs inside his neck (left side) and it had become abscessed).

Unfortunately, although she wanted to keep him, her dog just wouldn't allow it. So I adopted him through a local Partnership for Pets.

We have bonded great, but some of his behavior puzzles me.

When the previous owner got him from the neighbor, he was completely housetrained, and although a little frisky, was the purrrrfect little gentleman. He also was not afraid of anyone and would go up to almost anyone without any fear.

This leads me to believe that someone moved and dumped him outside and the other lady found him.

I suspect that he may have been abused by a male character, as at times I do nothing but reach out to pet him, and he runs away. He also at times cowers with partial fear underneath where it is safe.

I'm 6'3" and up to now had not really detected anything unusual, and thought it was just new house growing pains. He is well fed, cared for, and has all his shots up to date. To this day so far, he has shown no signs of illness. He has adapted well after declawing (approx 4-5 weeks ago), and when he want something, he uses the "shepherds crook tail" and rubs against me. He also (on his schedule) sleeps in the bed with me with no problem.

Am I imagining things?


Any help in interpreting these behaviors and what to expect or what to do to improve our relations would help. We play just great, and he definitely purrs when I do pet him and has no problem in sitting on my desk and watching me.

Mike
 

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Originally posted by Clyde
I hope everyone won't be upset with me.
I hope they won't either. Not to start a big who-shot-John about it, but I would much really rather see a declawed cat in an otherwise wonderful home than see the same cat back in the shelter/foster system or even worse, euthanised. When health reasons prevail, I have to side with them.

Originally posted by Clyde
I suspect that he may have been abused by a male character, as at times I do nothing but reach out to pet him, and he runs away. He also at times cowers with partial fear underneath where it is safe ... I'm 6'3" ...
Mike, look at it from a different perspective if possible. Clyde is much, much smaller than you. He may feel intimidated by your size. I know that speaking for myself (5'4"), I can feel a little intimidated by my 6'3" husband if he moves a little too fast. *grin*

It could very well be that Clyde wasn't treated nicely by a male and of course that would certainly explain his fearful behavior. But it might also be because Clyde hasn't been around large men much. Maybe you are a whole new ballgame for him.

Originally posted by Clyde
Am I imagining things?
Maybe, maybe not. But just give it time and patience. Clyde will come to be less fearful of you as he learns your behavior patterns and cycles. You will also be much more comfortable with him when you begin to recognize his own patterns and routines.

Sincerely hoping this helps,

~gf~
 
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