My poor kitty Caspurr finally had to leave me today., and I feel absolutely horrible about her last couple days with me. Friday morning began with her getting attacked by the dog twice, and today was awful. I was going to reschedule her appointment today because of the weather (living in the country means your road gets plowed last), but my mother insisted we go today. Not because she cared about the cat, but because she was in a foul mood when she got home after sliding most of the way home. We slid quite a bit on the way to the office, and Caspurr peed in her carrier. A urinalysis was done with the urine in the carrier and she was found to have a UTI. I should have known how bad she was when she was laying in the corner on the floor at the vet's, eating litter, and vomiting up white fluid). She was given an antibiotic and some vitamin B to help stimulate her appetite, and for whatever reason, the vet gave her an enema. I have no idea why, but since I was so distraught, I did not question it much. I took her back home and she kept needing to move her bowels about every 2-3 minutes. The mess wasn't the problem - it was the fact that she couldn't even relax in her final hours, and she was straining herself so much trying to move her bowels and producing a tiny bit of fluid that she began to bleed from her backside. I stayed with her the entire time after her vet visit, leaving only to get more towels to put under her. I snuggled with her and told her I loved her because while I said I wanted to have the weekend with her, something told me after I got home that she wouldn't last that long. She became very lame, not even wanting to lift up her head or open her eyes, and for some reason, I chalked this up to the antibiotics and enema - I wouldn't want to move if I just got shots and an enema either. But then her eyes bolted wide open and she started twisting and lurching around and sticking her legs out to claw at the air. She never made a sound the entire time. I lifted her onto a towel and she was...somehow limp, but stiff, and she never blinked, but her pupils were totally dilated. She continued to stretch her legs and reach for something in the air, so I told my mother I can't let her go like this all night and let her die on her own. The driveway was not plowed, so Mom tried to shovel it (and it's a big driveway), but she ended up getting the car stuck in a pile of snow and we had to call a nearby friend to give us a lift to the clinic in the middle of a snowstorm. By the time we got to the clinic, Caspurr was foaming at the mouth. Her blood pressure was so abysmally low that the vet couldn't even find a vein to administer the pink liquid, so she just stuck the needle under Caspurr's front leg/arm. Caspurr didn't even flinch and her final moments were much more peaceful than I thought (yes, I made the decision to stay with her).I feel awful about the way in which her last hours went. Why did I not opt to help her pass the first time I was at the vet's? Why was I so stupid about how bad she was in the morning? I will never ever get the images of her writhing around in what I can only imagine is pain out of my head and I feel like a failure as a cat owner for letting her suffer like that. I don't doubt helping her pass on was the best thing to do considering how bad her condition was, but I'm never going to forgive myself for letting her suffer. I have no idea what caused her death - I don't know if it was an infection, cancer, or something else. I have but two regrets: Not letting her cross the Bridge before she reached such an awful state (and saving her further suffering), and any time I ever took her for granted in her almost 15 years with me. Right now, I would give anything to have her back for just a few minutes, meowing for food or patting me on the nose in the middle of the night. At the very very least, I'm glad I was able to have one more Christmas with her. Rest in Peace, my sweet Caspurr. March 16, 1998 - December 29, 2012. I love you, I miss you, and I'm sorry if I ever put my comfort above yours in your final weeks with me.