i totally understand how u feel - been there, done that. so dont worry - ure not the only one! hang in there! x
Tabby's Place! I was on the crf support list that Tabby's owner was on, before he was able to bring his vision to life. I support them as much as I can - it's a *wonderful* sanctuary.Sounds like you're still down. For what it's worth.. I had a critically sick cat, and I was ready to sign over my car, yes, my car, to save him by covering vet bills. The emergency vet clinic will probably forever remember me as the girl who would sell her car for one cat, and never has a dry eye. The car wasn't cheap either. A Subaru outback in great condition. But could I drive this car again, knowing I didn't do everything i could to save him? No. Fortunately, they cut me a deal til morning, until I could run to the bank and see if I was approved for financing.
Once again, I reiterate, you are not alone. Many people do not understand the love and bond cats can share with people. A life is a life. You don't need to explain or divulge to people that won't understand.
I just read about this guy who founded a center in new jersey, a rescue, and a vet clinic in one. His cat, Tabby, was diagnosed with terminal cancer and died. He questioned his life after that, quit his job, and started the center. They like to take on special needs cats, although they take on normal cats too. This is a guy, whose life revolved around a cat, now cats, and turned it into something positive. Keep this in mind, and take heart. Don't mind those who mind your business.
It is the absolute best way to deal with rude people. It is also necessary NOT to share information with such people because they are the type who will use whatever we share with them, against us. Not sharing things that are none of their business is the only way to prevent these kinds of problems. It's very effective.Originally posted by NutroMike
Ignore them and inform them politely and firmly it really is none of their business how you choose to spend your money. Period. My standard response is something like, "Well, that really shouldn't concern you and is not any of your business" . Works every time.