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My cat has CHF. I am an emotional wreck over the entire situation, and my husband thinks I'm "over-reacting." We don't have any children, so I have an very strong bond with my cat. He is on medication, and does pretty good during the day, but seems to have a harder time at night when he's trying to sleep. He has a hard time getting comfortable, and he also has chronic bronchitis so when he coughs, it's non-productive and very distressing. I can't treat him for the bronchitis because I can't give him an inhaler. He was born feral and still has a "wild side" when trying to do anything he doesn't like. I can't stress him out because it's very dangerous for his heart. I feel helpless, not knowing when things will turn really bad, and I can't sleep at night from the anxiety it is causing. I got some medication from the Doctor, but that isn't even working all of the time. About a month ago he spent 2 nights in ICU, which is when he was diagnosed. It was horrible, and I'm so afraid of facing that situation all over again. I don't want him to suffer, but I'm afraid there's probably no way around that in the end. I'm trying to mentally prepare, but it's causing me more anxiety than it is producing results. How do I shut my mind down from the bad thoughts of what will happen, and take each day one at a time and cherish what time I have left with him? I don't want to ever let him down, he depends on me for everything. Any suggestions from anyone who has been down this road or is going through it also?