Blue

I am so sorry I took your thread in a bad way, and that I got defensive.
You are such a wonderful person...a ray of sunshine, in an otherwise dark world.
Sorry things have been boring here for you, and I am sorry I took offense at your thread.
Maybe I should take abreak from this site...I think I am taking it all way to personal these days.
I hope to be back soon...but if not...I love you guys..all of you, and please forgive me. for getting my feelings hurt.
Anne..you are the best...and I think I am just a bit too sensitive tonight. Forgive me.
I think I should not come back here for awhile...till I get over my stupid childish hurt feelings, and can function as an adult again. Please forgive me.
I hope I will be back....but if I never am, just know that you all had a big impact on my life...and I will never forget you.

Debby,
I don't know you and I'm new to posting on this site, but I hope you can get over your hurt feelings. I've read some of your postings and you seem so articulate and I'll bet you are a great person.

Pleeeese don't leave the site. Take a break if you must, but don't give it up. Our fur babies need your loving advice and comments.

Patches, Buttons and abandoned kitty's (Stubby)Mom

Please don't go!!! I enjoy your post soo much. I am the one only you told how to tell the sex of my kittens. I read later on the same "sex" sight your later posting. If that is your problem, I can't say as I blame you, I would of been hurt and crushed and probably not able to go take a walk and just let it go. But.....in the long run of things, don't take it to heart. It's not worth it over some stupid TV show. My husband died 4 years ago and you know, I can think of things he did to hurt my feelings and things I did to upset him. But, in the big picture, he was my best friend, my lover and my life. Those times of arguing and ranting and raving, seem so far away and not very important in the overall picture of our life together.
We young kittens need you, please take a brief rest and come back. Like tomorrow?

Jeannie

Debby

well, lets speak honestly and openly.

i dont want to see you go, Debby, this site loves you, and i know you love being apart
of it with everyone else.

there is no reason you should feel the need to leave because you misunderstood a thread,
and had your feelings hurt,
i've had my feelings hurt as well, and hell, i dont even like some people all that much,
but, so what? we cant all like every single person, nor can we all always get along
and see the world in the exact same way.

there's always going to be different opinions and ideas, and thats a good thing, diversity is important.

i know this site is a place you come for comfort and peace and for the people,
and i think maybe you feel that will be threatened in some way if people stir things up
a bit with opinions and what have you, but, it's only what you make it, and how you percieve it
personally. right?

i see no reason for you to leave and i'll be sad if you do.

but i'm not going to refrain my opinion out of fear of rocking the boat, or people leaving...
i feel like a lot of people are threatening to leave everytime things arent going the way
they want them to and that's too bad because it promotes 'walking on eggshells' all the time.

i have considered leaving, especially yesterday, and other times, but, i what i've decided is to
drop my Moderating responsibilities as i just dont have the time, energy, and effort
nor any idea when i'll be back online once i get home.

i just want to come here and feel excited to read a post again, and get to know everyone better.

Blue...
I didn't want to leave things the way I did last night...so I just want to say, I will be back....I just need a few days to get my head screwed back on straight, not be so sensitive, and deal with things in life a little better.
I have just been having a hard time dealing with some of the things that life is throwing my way, and I guess it kind of spilled over into the catsite...I didn't mean to take my frustrations out on you or anyone else. I am sorry.


ps...are we still friends?

of course we're still friends, Debby. no hard feelings.

i'd like to know what's going on for you that is making life so hard,
that's why i'm here, can i help in any way?