Update for Mr. Jinx!

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Hello everyone!

I don't know if anyone remembers, but last year I was posting quite a bit because I was working with a feral from outside (he was living around my backyard) for many months, and then finally took the plunge and brought him in weeks before we moved from that property. Then we got here, to our new home, and poor Mr. Jinx made a break for it and was missing in the cold for three days until I live trapped him in the yard and brought him back into the house.

Well... It's been a LONG time now, so I thought it would be good to give an update. November 22nd will mark Jinky's 1 year inside the house anniversary, and since we don't know his birthday, we decided Halloween would be a proper time. I am slow cooking a turkey breast in the crockpot to celebrate! LOL

Anyway, he's doing great and has made zero attempts to leave since that fateful day. When I open the back door he moves away from it and lets the dog out, then patiently waits by his bowl to eat. He's a giant mush machine, and he lives on my lap most of the time.

He's become best friends with DH also, and when I'm not available, you can find him on the DH too. He's all over us in the bed at night, and he loves to put his head under your chin and sleep. He also ADORES kisses and will reach up to you with his head in order to receive them. Every now and again he nibbles your nose to kiss you back.

Jinx purrs ALL the time. He still has some skin allergies, so he's on grain-free food (wet and dry) and salmon oil. He also gets a warm catnip bath every few days to relieve itching. The vet thinks it's due to exposure in the elements without proper care or nutrition for so long. The vet also thinks that's why he has so few teeth (improper nutrition as a kitten).

All in all, he's a perfect love. He gets along with the other pets just fine (we lost our little lady kitty in September and brought a new tiny woman home, and he loved her from day 1). He's happy and kind and seems to enjoy his lazy senior lifestyle at home!

Last year at this time, I thought I'd been dealing with a cat who was *maybe* 2 or 3 years old. I was trying to figure out how in the world to bring this frightened little guy who wouldn't even let me watch him eat through a window inside. We'd worked so long to get to a place where he was just letting me touch him, and then one cold night, he sat in the rain, sneezing and shaking, looking at me in the kitchen. He was begging me to come sit with him in the wet cold, and I knew then that there was no way I was going to leave him out there.

Fast forward to a little while later, after tricking him inside and luring him with turkey, I find out he's not 3, he's somewhere between 8 and 12 years old! Yes, he was a potentially 12 YEAR OLD feral!

His happy face reminds me to never give up and always have hope that the most amazing things can happen. He's an incredible little wonder, and I'm sure there are many more senior ferals out there who would be just as thrilled to have a warm lap to sleep in after such a desperate hard life.

I was once told that ferals could not be domesticated after ten months of age. That any cat over 10 months was a "lost cause". I'm glad I never listened.




 

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HOW GREAT of you to give us an update. AND I LOVE this story about the surprise on Jinx's age. It is just another proven success story that age has no bearing on being able to socialize a feral cat. It always concerns me when people post that a feral cat/kitten cannot be socialized after a "certain" age. Not true at all. There are many a senior feral cat that has taken up residence and refuge in horse barns where I have worked over the years. They finally decide that people are not so bad and can offer them the last few years of their lives in comfort. They are smart little beings that know when they have had enough of the outdoor life. :nod: I am beaming with smiles at those photos. :D So happy for you, your husband, and Mr. Jinx. :rub:
 
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Thank you so much!

And yes, it makes me so mad when people say that! Once Jinx realized what it was like to live indoors and be snuggled, he decided that was the life for him, and he's never looked back. :clap:

We feel so lucky to have him! I hope I can keep him healthy and happy for ten more years!
 

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Awwww, what an awesome story long may you thrive Mr. Jinx!!!!   Those pictures are just heart warming


MrJinx (the human), do you believe he was completely feral at the start?    I've been debating about what to do about Oscar, an outdoor feral I'm feeding, who is probably a little under two years old.  He's been fed by people all along but not handled - he won't eat in front of me though he will watch me put the food down and wait for me to leave.   I had a pretty scary experience last year when I TNR'd a feral lady cat and she went insane in my bathroom trying to claw through the walls, climbing up to the ceiling.  I'm scared to repeat that experience!   And yet, the best solution would be to bring him in and tame him if possible.    What did Mr. Jinx do after you lured him in with that turkey and shut the door?   (I'll try to find your old posts about it too)
 
 

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It's totally possible for a particular feral to be untameable. Some are just too wild to ever become house pets. But I don't think you could make such a blanket statement for ALL feral cats. There are exceptions to every rule, especially for a species that's been tamed. Tameness is in their blood, for some of them.

You know, it's possible to bring a feral in and have them live indoors without being fully tame. If they are used to humans, they may spend much of the time hiding, but still be comfortable with you around. If you can come within a couple feet of the cat without it freaking out, you're probably okay. A cat doesn't have to be cuddly to live happily indoors. You can even build them lots of little hiding places for them to watch the household from.
 
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Hi Bastfriend!

Well, I debated back and forth re: Mr. Jinx and whether he was totally feral or not, but here are the long-run facts that made me believe he was:

1) He was never neutered in his 10 plus years

2) He was missing teeth due to improper nutrition as a kitten (according to vet)

3) He absolutely would NOT let anyone come near him, ever

4) When he finally did let me come near him, he beat me up a good few times because he had no idea what my hand was doing (LOL) and had never seen a cat toy, catnip, etc.

5) He is still deathly afraid of other people who are not my DH or me, and when he got out the one time, he reverted immediately to scared feral, hence the need to trap him

So, all in all, my belief is that he was and had been totally feral. I think if he could find someone feeding somewhere, he definitely ate the food, but would not let anyone come near him. It took me about 6 months to get close at all, working hours per day, getting bloody a couple of times for me! LOL

The first time I got Jinx in, he found a way to escape back out through an air duct and I did not see him for 3 days. Finally he returned, and I waited another month before trying again. This time he went into the smallest bathroom and just shook the entire time. There was a night where he had a good time destroying all the toilet paper and knocking everything over. It took him about a week to get sort of comfortable, and he would not come out of this bathroom (TINY!) for at least 2 weeks. I practiced picking him up during that time, since we were already in love, and finally moved him into the safe room I'd set up which was bigger and more comfy.

He stayed in there for about two months, and would only go around the house at night, crying all night for a long while, until one day, he decided he was happy, and the crying at night stopped. This took about four months. So as you can see, it's not a fast process, and if you had asked him then if he'd have rather been outside, I'm sure he would've thought yes. Now, though, you'd have to drag him out! :)

And agree with Callista, it depends on the kitty. I've had ferals before who lived inside and were comfortable with me, but were never completely tame. Even Jinx is that so far, because he will still hide if others are in the house.
 

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Wow MrJinx's human, it is an amazing story and you are an awesome human with great fortitude.  I'm not sure that I could handle that breaking in process to tell you the truth.  I want to do right by Oscar as best I can, but I'm in an apartment with terrible sound-proofing so my neighbors would hear all the flailing and howling.    I read back over some of your old threads and it sounds like you had an incredible bond with him before you even brought him inside.   Maybe I should work with Oscar more outside to see if he has the right temperament before attempting the inside thing.   Thanks for sharing your story!

Hi Callista, thanks for the alternative ideas - who knows what may yet happen.   I already have a semi-feral Patches who is like you describe, she is happy indoors but will never be cuddly though after many years she will let me pet her...according to prescribed rules of course.   I rescued her with two of her feral kittens years ago and ended up keeping her and one of the kittens.   I didn't know quite what I was getting into though because neighbors told me she'd been abandoned so I assumed she'd become tame again....no way but she did clearly take to the indoor life though!    She remembered being safe and warm and fed, but that whole being handled by humans was a bad deal in her mind.   Oscar though I know for a fact has never been indoors a day in  his life.   

Ah well, thanks you guys for the perspective!   And apologies to Mr. Jinx for thread high-jacking, long live Mr. Jinx!!!!
 

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Sweet photos -- beautiful kitty! Returning after three days is a good omen. I (failed) fostered a group of five who had been fed but not handled. At one point early on the sole male, guessed age 12 months, escaped from a cage and we retrieved him from a wall light fixture by pushing him into a waste-can with a broom and slapping on a lid. A few weeks later, a hand petting one of the others brushed across his tummy and he decided that felt good and responded with finger sniffs. That quickly turned to allowing more touch and he's now a big love who begs for tummy rubs.
 

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back! What a terrific update - Mr. Jinx has made incredible progress and obviously knows how good he's got it now.
 

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Hello everyone!

I don't know if anyone remembers, but last year I was posting quite a bit because I was working with a feral from outside (he was living around my backyard) for many months, and then finally took the plunge and brought him in weeks before we moved from that property. Then we got here, to our new home, and poor Mr. Jinx made a break for it and was missing in the cold for three days until I live trapped him in the yard and brought him back into the house.

Well... It's been a LONG time now, so I thought it would be good to give an update. November 22nd will mark Jinky's 1 year inside the house anniversary, and since we don't know his birthday, we decided Halloween would be a proper time. I am slow cooking a turkey breast in the crockpot to celebrate! LOL

Anyway, he's doing great and has made zero attempts to leave since that fateful day. When I open the back door he moves away from it and lets the dog out, then patiently waits by his bowl to eat. He's a giant mush machine, and he lives on my lap most of the time.

He's become best friends with DH also, and when I'm not available, you can find him on the DH too. He's all over us in the bed at night, and he loves to put his head under your chin and sleep. He also ADORES kisses and will reach up to you with his head in order to receive them. Every now and again he nibbles your nose to kiss you back.

Jinx purrs ALL the time. He still has some skin allergies, so he's on grain-free food (wet and dry) and salmon oil. He also gets a warm catnip bath every few days to relieve itching. The vet thinks it's due to exposure in the elements without proper care or nutrition for so long. The vet also thinks that's why he has so few teeth (improper nutrition as a kitten).

All in all, he's a perfect love. He gets along with the other pets just fine (we lost our little lady kitty in September and brought a new tiny woman home, and he loved her from day 1). He's happy and kind and seems to enjoy his lazy senior lifestyle at home!

Last year at this time, I thought I'd been dealing with a cat who was *maybe* 2 or 3 years old. I was trying to figure out how in the world to bring this frightened little guy who wouldn't even let me watch him eat through a window inside. We'd worked so long to get to a place where he was just letting me touch him, and then one cold night, he sat in the rain, sneezing and shaking, looking at me in the kitchen. He was begging me to come sit with him in the wet cold, and I knew then that there was no way I was going to leave him out there.

Fast forward to a little while later, after tricking him inside and luring him with turkey, I find out he's not 3, he's somewhere between 8 and 12 years old! Yes, he was a potentially 12 YEAR OLD feral!

His happy face reminds me to never give up and always have hope that the most amazing things can happen. He's an incredible little wonder, and I'm sure there are many more senior ferals out there who would be just as thrilled to have a warm lap to sleep in after such a desperate hard life.

I was once told that ferals could not be domesticated after ten months of age. That any cat over 10 months was a "lost cause". I'm glad I never listened.





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Thanks everyone!

And that man pictured had never even had a pet before I came around :lol3:

He claimed he disliked cats, and then he had three! Now he absolutely adores cats and wouldn't dream of living without a pet again.

In fact, little lady kitty (who just passed) was mine for 9 years. She had gall bladder duct cancer, and the doctors said there was only one thing they could possibly do to save her: perform a very complex bypass surgery.

Because she was so tiny (6 pounds) and because a team of specialists had to do it, it cost 8K for us to try, even though her chances of recovery were slim. It was that guy pictured, who disliked cats and never got attached to a pet before, who paid to save her. And when she didn't make it, he was the one who took it the hardest.

People are a lot like feral cats - show them some real love, and they become safe enough to feel. :rbheart:
 
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