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my sister in law got a dog because my brother wanted it. she would clip his nails, buy him lots of toys, made a scrapbook for him. he would even sleep in her bedroom. then she had a daughter, and now she no longer buys him toys. the only thing they buy for him is dog food. and im stuck buying him his flea treatments as he sleeps on my side of the house.
we were talking about him, and all of the sudden she that now the most important thing is her daughter and not the dog. and that he is not important anymore. even her aunt had a dog that she would dress and dote on, she would sleep with him, and the dog was obviously well cared for, and spoiled. but then she found a boyfriend and all of the sudden he came first. the dog was very depressed and confused.
she started distancing herself from the dog and giving more attention to the man in her life. and now the aunt now looks at me funny for doting on my cat. the other day she came over and looked at my cats, cat tree in a weird way, as if im crazy for buying it. even my sister noted the way she was looking at my cat.
i get that children come first, and i'll probably feel the same when i have a kid. but i mean to the point that you cant even buy them a toy, and dont even seem to consider them important anymore?? i dont have kids yet, but in my heart, my cat is my first baby, as crazy as that sounds. i love her dearly, and it scares me that i might end up acting like shes not important anymore once i get married and have kids.
we were talking about him, and all of the sudden she that now the most important thing is her daughter and not the dog. and that he is not important anymore. even her aunt had a dog that she would dress and dote on, she would sleep with him, and the dog was obviously well cared for, and spoiled. but then she found a boyfriend and all of the sudden he came first. the dog was very depressed and confused.
she started distancing herself from the dog and giving more attention to the man in her life. and now the aunt now looks at me funny for doting on my cat. the other day she came over and looked at my cats, cat tree in a weird way, as if im crazy for buying it. even my sister noted the way she was looking at my cat.
i get that children come first, and i'll probably feel the same when i have a kid. but i mean to the point that you cant even buy them a toy, and dont even seem to consider them important anymore?? i dont have kids yet, but in my heart, my cat is my first baby, as crazy as that sounds. i love her dearly, and it scares me that i might end up acting like shes not important anymore once i get married and have kids.