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I think it's a bit soon to write anything, because it would take a lot of words to describe what this cat has meant to me,to my husband, to all who met him.  But I want to say something.

We lost Dee on Sunday, and it is one of the few times I've seen my husband cry.  Dee was from a litter born not long after we were married, near the end of my showing American Curls.  We did show Dee as a kitten - even went to Canada several times..we have many cherished memories of those times.  One highlight would be the time we woke up to find him fast asleep between us in the hotel bed, on his back, all 4 legs splayed, snoring away happily.

Those on the forum who've known me a long time, will remember my talking about Patrick (a several-time great-grand-father of Dee's) - who was my first American Curl male of a very small breeding progam I had (long since retired).  Dee was the last American Curl boy we had and the simularities were downright freaky.  He pouted the way Patrick did, got a stubborn look on his face the same way Patrick did, was outgoing and charismatic..he expected everyone to like him, and they did. He was a wonderful ambassador for the breed..just like Patrick was.

Like Patrick, I had an intensive session of being mom/nurse (I handfed Patrick for over a year when he was in his later years), we had our routine down though - meds and inhaler am and pm, and in between..good wet food, scratching pole sessions, naps in the sun.  Dee even began (I always held him in my arms like a baby to pill him) to turn his head towards my hand with the pill and open his mouth..I kid you not.
Pill time was me enjoying the wonderful feel of him in my arms, hearing him purr.

I am really, really missing holding him.

I know he is with Patrick, his Mom, his auntie Alix, his brother roo who passed away several years ago, and I dearly look forward to seeing him again.

Dee..we love you, we miss you so.
 

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I'm so sorry for your loss, Pat. Patrick (whom I remember many stories of) and the others are sure to be with him now, and they're all watching over you and your husband. You must have so many good memories to cherish.

RIP, Dee.
 

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I am so sorry for the loss of Dee.  He sounds like a very sweet, special boy who was lucky to have you and your husband, and who will be missed very much.  Thank you for sharing.

{{{HUGS}}}
 

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I am truly sorry for your loss.  It is so hard to pick up the pieces and go on because life without them seems so unreal.  In time, may your memories be sweet, not painful, and may they bring you much comfort and peace.  These cats who are so dearly loved are blessed beyond measure to have loving homes and families.  We give them so very little, a home and food and in exchange, they give us their very souls and become a part of our heart.  Hugs.
 
 

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Pat..... hun, my whole heart goes out to you. :heart3: I do know how begin a mom/nurse/caretaker of ailing elderly pets becomes your life and when they finally succumb to their illness or disease, they take a huge part of our life and heart with them. :rbheart: I don't think we get it back until we meet again. :bawling: I have been caring for Wilbur, my soul mate dog, for over a year and a half. Every single day, we work to make that day the best and make him as comfortable as possible. He still hangs on and surprises us with this will to carry on with me. I am torn up over your loss of :rbheart: Dee. I DO know how special he was to you. :hugs: :heart2: I am sorry for the grief you are dealing with right now. Keeping you close to my heart in the days to follow. :hugs: :vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes:

You are free :rbheart: Dee :rbheart: Your momma loved you deeply and will forever. Please come to her and let her know you are very, very happy and peaceful on the bridge. Free from any pain and suffering, playing freely with Patrick, your mom, Alix and Roo. :rbheart: :rbheart: :rbheart: :rbheart: Let her know you are in the comfort of great love. :heart3: :angel: :angel3:
 
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Loads more of hugs and vibes coming your way today, Pat. Thinking of you and hoping you are hanging on through this difficult and sad time. :cross: :hugs: :vibes: :cross: :hugs: :vibes: :cross: :hugs: :vibes: :cross: :hugs: :vibes: :cross: :hugs: :vibes: :cross: :hugs: :vibes: :cross: :hugs: :vibes: :cross: :hugs: :vibes: :cross: :hugs: :vibes: :cross: :hugs: :vibes: :cross: :hugs: :vibes: :cross: :hugs: :vibes: :cross: :hugs: :vibes:
 
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