Hi all,
Newbie here. I'll explain my problem...
Java, my older cat is nearly 18 months now. She was the only cat in the household up until about 3 months ago, when I got two new kittens - a brother and sister.
Pascal and Lily-Lazarus are quite boisterous, naturally, so it was hard for Java to sleep without being disturbed as the little ones would always bother her. She started to go out a lot more (fine, it's summer after all) but then I made a big mistake - I put the new cat tree next to her bed and then one of the cats peed in her bed for some reason. She won't sleep in the bed any more and I expect she feels her territory has been invaded completely. It seems like she only ever comes in for food. I think she must be sleeping in another house because she is never in at night.
They get along reasonably well though - playfight sometimes, especially in the garden - no actual fights or anything.
I have even seen her grooming them on occasion.
What can I do to make her feel like the queen of the house again? She gets very edgy when she comes in and doesn't even like being touched any more (she makes weird noises), especially if the kittens are around (which they always are). She used to sleep on my bed every night but since my room was the kitten isolation room for the first week that obviously stopped.
This is making me really quite sad as I love her so much and she just isn't interested. She still has her collar on and is chipped so I'm sure whoever she is with knows she has an owner, but I want to reintegrate her into the household. She used to be so affectionate, albeit moody sometimes :-)
Any advice you can all give is so appreciated. I'm trying to play with her whenever she comes in, and even locking the kittens away while I do it. I think I need to re-establish a territory for her but it's hard as there aren't many places that the other cats won't have to go past to get to the front room, food etc.
Is it a bad idea to keep her in at night? I'm nervous about trying as she is quite stressed with it all.
Thanks,
Drew
Newbie here. I'll explain my problem...
Java, my older cat is nearly 18 months now. She was the only cat in the household up until about 3 months ago, when I got two new kittens - a brother and sister.
Pascal and Lily-Lazarus are quite boisterous, naturally, so it was hard for Java to sleep without being disturbed as the little ones would always bother her. She started to go out a lot more (fine, it's summer after all) but then I made a big mistake - I put the new cat tree next to her bed and then one of the cats peed in her bed for some reason. She won't sleep in the bed any more and I expect she feels her territory has been invaded completely. It seems like she only ever comes in for food. I think she must be sleeping in another house because she is never in at night.
They get along reasonably well though - playfight sometimes, especially in the garden - no actual fights or anything.
I have even seen her grooming them on occasion.
What can I do to make her feel like the queen of the house again? She gets very edgy when she comes in and doesn't even like being touched any more (she makes weird noises), especially if the kittens are around (which they always are). She used to sleep on my bed every night but since my room was the kitten isolation room for the first week that obviously stopped.
This is making me really quite sad as I love her so much and she just isn't interested. She still has her collar on and is chipped so I'm sure whoever she is with knows she has an owner, but I want to reintegrate her into the household. She used to be so affectionate, albeit moody sometimes :-)
Any advice you can all give is so appreciated. I'm trying to play with her whenever she comes in, and even locking the kittens away while I do it. I think I need to re-establish a territory for her but it's hard as there aren't many places that the other cats won't have to go past to get to the front room, food etc.
Is it a bad idea to keep her in at night? I'm nervous about trying as she is quite stressed with it all.
Thanks,
Drew