BooBoo is deaf

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BooBoo is our 16-year-old male kitty. He's been in wonderful health, other than allergy issues.

Last Thursday night, I realized that he couldn't hear me. I had called the cats for their bedtime snacks and he didn't show up. I figured that it was because he was sleeping soundly and wasn't paying attention. I walked over to the cat tree and tapped him on his shoulder. He awakened and when he realized that it was time for snacks, he jumped down and strolled out to the kitchen. But that made me curious.

After he was done eating and bathing, I walked behind him, reached down and snapped my fingers. No response, not even an ear flicker. Now I know that just this past weekend when we were all playing with Da Bird, I was talking to him and he gave responses. Now nothing.

Got him to the vet right away on Friday. And yes, he is deaf. I feel badly because I didn't see this. I didn't realize that he could no longer hear. The vet says that, other that his deafness, he is fine. Heart is good, lungs are clear, his coat is nice and shiny and there's no weight loss. The vet said that he's still quite the handsome old man and that, sometimes, cats will simply stop being able to hear. It's part of old age, much like we tend to lose our hearing as we age. He still loves his meals and his snacks. She gave him his rabies shot and we brought him home.

But now? His favorite spot is under the sofa and that makes me sad. When it's time for food, I lift the sofa skirt up and tap Boo. And I clap with hands together, without making a sound. Three times. Then I crook my index finger and say, "Boo? C'mon buddy.....time for snackies!" He always comes out and eats very well. Gives himself a bath and then goes back under the sofa. He doesn't lie up in the cat tree like he used to. He doesn't lie on top of the sofa or flop in our laps. He's starting to live under the sofa.

What can I do to help him feel more comfortable in his silent world? I don't want him to feel that he has to stay under the sofa, that that's the only place he can feel safe now. It's heartbreaking. I still talk to him, still tell him that he's my purrrrty man and my Mr. Boooooo.

Can you give me some ideas to make his life a little more comfortable so that he doesn't hide so much? I feel so sad for him.
 
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Did the vet check his blood pressure? That can cause deafness in older cats and needs treatment to avoid a stroke.

I think he'll adjust pretty soon. Kitties are adaptable. :vibes: for him to feel happier soon!
 

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I am thinking you should put something under the couch that makes going under it impossible. If he starts going under a bed, getting him out would be a lot easier. I know that does not solve the problem, but it would make life a little less stressful while you figure out a real solution.
 

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Oh poor baby! My only experience is with a kitty that became deaf before we rescued her as a little baby. (Flowerbelle).

Does he like to play? Are you able to lure him out for play time? Or does he love being brushed/petted? If you lure him out with treats, are you able to get him to stay out if you put him on the couch with you? :dk:

I do agree with Willowy though.. he'll adjust!

Honestly, I wonder if that's why he's under the couch? I'm sure he notices he doesn't hear things any longer, but I'm not sure that would make him afraid. I don't know about older cats that go deaf... but deaf cats are usually fairly fearless, because they're not affected by the sound of the vacuum cleaner or loud noises that startle the other cats. I guess it would be different for a hearing cat that went deaf though. :rub:

Has this been his "safe spot" before? Because another common denominator among many deaf kitties is that they prefer to be "up" so they can see what's going on. Flowerbelle loves being "up" in a room corner, especially.

But he is eating fine, right? He hasn't lost weight?

Aw.... :hugs: :vibes: :vibes: :vibes: :rub: :heart3:
 
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Thank you for responding.

Under the sofa has always been one of his favorite spots. He goes there when it's really hot, when he wants peace from the other cats, when he's not feeling well. But I had to do was say "Lunch!" and he was out of there in a flash. He still comes out when he knows I'm feeding the cats, but then he goes right back under. I'm hoping that it's just a reaction from the rabies shot, but he went under there this morning after breakfast and his rabies shot was last Friday night.

Last night, I lifted up the sofa skirt and started talking to him and I reached in to pet him and give him scritches. He started purring right away and came out for snacks. And then before he could go back under the sofa, I reached down, picked him up, gave him a big kiss and plopped him on the cat tree. And he stayed there for about an hour watching out the window. Then he jumped down, and jumped up on Rick's lap and flopped down there for awhile. I had had my head on Rick's lap but I moved to give him more room. Rick and I kept touching him and he purred like crazy. And then when we went to bed, Rick picked BooBoo up and carried him back to the bedroom. He flopped down next to my legs and he was there most of the night.

But this morning after his breakfast and a quick bath, he went back under the couch again (Mollipop, Amber, and Tabby were racing through the house and really carrying on; I don't know if that made him nervous or what). I talked to him and told him that I loved him before I left for work this morning....I always do that with all the cats. I find them and tell each one that Mama loves them, but she has to work so she can buy them kitty food.
 He seemed OK and nudged my hand with his head.

He's eating fine (he's always been a good eater and he was never above letting me know when he was hungry.....this boy had bottomless paws, and when I'm home from work during the day, his belly timer is set for about every two hours. No matter where I'm at, he'll come looking for me to let me know that it's time for yet another snack. But he doesn't do that anymore), he's not lost an ounce since he was at the vet during early spring when, in fact, he had gained 3/4 of a pound. And the vet did take his BP and said it was fine, so there's not an issue there. Blood work done during his early spring vet also showed nothing wrong. On Friday, night, she just said that it happens with older cats, just like it does with humans.

I don't know if any of you will remember this, but BooBoo is also my bouncing buddy. Or he was. Several times a week, he would come into the bathroom after I was done with my shower. He'd jump up on the toilet, I'd pick him up and we'd bounce for about 10-15 minutes while he played with my wet hair and I'd sing to him. Then I'd take him back to the bedroom, flop him on the bed and he'd curl up for a nap. Unless he didn't think we bounced long enough; then he'd run back into the bathroom and we'd do it all over again until he was satisfied. We don't do that anymore either and I don't know why. He just doesn't care about bouncing anymore. Maybe it's just his age. But I miss it.

I don't want to put something under the sofa to stop him from going there.....like I said, it really is one of his comfort places and I feel that might do more harm than good. He's already going through the adjustment of losing his hearing....I don't want to force him to give up his comfort place; that doesn't seem fair.

Thank you. Maybe it will be just until he gets used to not hearing us. And we get used to him not hearing us. It's just very sad.
 

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Aww, it is sad, but it does sound just a normal part of aging for him.
I agree that stopping him from going under the sofa would be a bad idea. He's got to have his safe spot, and he's been fine when you carry him out of there so I don't see an issue. He's getting lots of love and attention and is otherwise healthy, so there's really not much else you can do. :hugs:
 
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AW Pam..... :vibes::vibes: for Boo and :hugs: :hugs: for you. I also agree that I would let Boo choose where to nap and hang out now. I would not stop or block off any place he chooses. If he feels comfy under the sofa, then just give him love and scritches like you are doing from there. :D He will adjust and I wonder if this was sudden or if he was slowly losing his hearing. My older dog Wilbur is losing his hearing little by little. I think it is part of old age in our babies. It is sad to lose what we were once so used to enjoying with them. I just spend more time holding and snuggling Wilbur (which he used to hate :lol3:) and enjoying his golden years for as many days as I can. I do miss the "young" vibrant Wilbur, but am loving this new phase in our journey together. It is SO hard when they are getting on in age and start having these issues. For you Boo Boo :vibes: :rub: :vibes: :rub: :vibes: :rub: :vibes: :rub:
 

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My Clyde is deaf, and has been all his life, but when his Maine Coon friend died, he got really upset and weird. Hiding, afraid of the ceiling fan, things like that. That was when we adopted him, and he right away started looking to our cats for "safety" cues. I think that Boo will eventually get used to it, he's just figuring out when he's safe. I know Clyde gets REAL excited when I open the silverware drawer and show him a spoon. LOL!!! :) I hope Boo Boo gets a little more confident!
 

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I think the other cats tearing around might be making him nervous.

My rainbow bridge kitty Chynna was deaf the last couple years of her life.  Probably from around age 16 or so. She and I managed to communicate with each other pretty well. I used hand signals which she learned. I tapped the floor to cause vibrations which she picked up.  And she learned to tap me on the leg or arm to let me know she was there (as if I were deaf too).  And when I talked to her I put my mouth against her face or body so that she could feel my voice, and that seemed to give her some comfort too.

I sounds like Boo Boo is on his way to understanding your hand signals IE: finger motions
 
 

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Patricia is obviously not deaf (she used to hate thunderstorms and vacuum cleaners), but years ago she learned to come to me when I wiggled my fingers with the left arm extended. So I know hand signals do work with cats.
 
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