Great news on your girlie!! Glad she's coming out of her fear and depression.
The vet can also tell by looking for tell-tale changes in the eyes. I believe the nature of the irises change; that's what the rescue vet told me when she said Mari was 8-10 and possibly older than that. Does she bunny hop the stairs? Or show other signs of arthritis?Someone asked if she is "vocal." She is...but you can't hear her! She is of the "silent meow" variety. She has a big, rumbly Harley Davidson purr, but no meow to speak of.
She also hates to be picked up.
She has the heavy whisker pads and the funny bend to the wrist that says "age" to me.
If she isn't spayed, we'll have to get it done.