Its related in a way to the other one. You see since Clive has been ill I refused to go flying anymore as the intention was to take him this friday to a massive event about 200 miles away. That was the target for him and we talked about it often. I regret that neither of us are making that trip this week now.
I said that I would not do any modelling (model aircraft - free flight) either making of new ones or competeing until he was well again and true to my word - I have not picked up a plane in over three - nigh on 4 months.
The problem that I have is that: My father flies free flight and is an ex Brit champion as well as Canadian team manager and writes for the free flight community in Canada.
Clive flew to an incredible standard and was dedicated to the sport.
And I fly, have represented the UK twice in canada and America - sorry guys I beat you all and took gold in both events years apart!!!
Anyway, its in my blood and even when I go up to my modelling room and pick up a sheet of wood, i feel the hankering and then - I just lose it and put it down, walk away and dont touch it.
I just dont know whether to continue. I think I am letting Clives death get me to the extent that if I do fly - people are going to think that I am trying to be like my step father. My own father has stated clearly that I am very well known and its true I am around the world and I know a respected. I write a newsletter quarterly on a class called Hand launch gliders and send this worldwide. I am at my happiest on the airfield and need to fly - but I just cant get the momentum to build and get going again. I just feel that may be I am dwelling on clive's memory and cant model cause I said that I would not until he was well again. Now thats failed - I wonder if I should continue. Carol thinks I should go for it again and get whipping butts...
I have heaps of trophies etc and if you goto
http://www.windandwavemodels.com/Postal2003.html
and scroll down to the photos, you will find one of a small child throwing an airplane and then one of this same child with me - dad holding two small airplanes I designed and won with. I called one "lets roll" after those lost on 9-11.
Should I quit - i dont want to really but my heart is not in it or is this all part of greiving?
I have never lost anyone that close to me before - possible why i am struggling.
Sorry its been a long one. You lot are so supportive - its like having my wife and 200 best friends to help me.
I said that I would not do any modelling (model aircraft - free flight) either making of new ones or competeing until he was well again and true to my word - I have not picked up a plane in over three - nigh on 4 months.
The problem that I have is that: My father flies free flight and is an ex Brit champion as well as Canadian team manager and writes for the free flight community in Canada.
Clive flew to an incredible standard and was dedicated to the sport.
And I fly, have represented the UK twice in canada and America - sorry guys I beat you all and took gold in both events years apart!!!
Anyway, its in my blood and even when I go up to my modelling room and pick up a sheet of wood, i feel the hankering and then - I just lose it and put it down, walk away and dont touch it.
I just dont know whether to continue. I think I am letting Clives death get me to the extent that if I do fly - people are going to think that I am trying to be like my step father. My own father has stated clearly that I am very well known and its true I am around the world and I know a respected. I write a newsletter quarterly on a class called Hand launch gliders and send this worldwide. I am at my happiest on the airfield and need to fly - but I just cant get the momentum to build and get going again. I just feel that may be I am dwelling on clive's memory and cant model cause I said that I would not until he was well again. Now thats failed - I wonder if I should continue. Carol thinks I should go for it again and get whipping butts...
I have heaps of trophies etc and if you goto
http://www.windandwavemodels.com/Postal2003.html
and scroll down to the photos, you will find one of a small child throwing an airplane and then one of this same child with me - dad holding two small airplanes I designed and won with. I called one "lets roll" after those lost on 9-11.
Should I quit - i dont want to really but my heart is not in it or is this all part of greiving?
I have never lost anyone that close to me before - possible why i am struggling.
Sorry its been a long one. You lot are so supportive - its like having my wife and 200 best friends to help me.