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Hi there,
I'm new here and I've come with a bit of a problem and seeking some advice so I hope someone can help.
We moved in to a new property in January and at first we noticed a little black cat that kept coming into our garden. At first he ran away and was scared of us, but because we love animals and didn't have any pets of our own we got him to come round and trust us. He would come in the house but we didn't feed him and then he'd wander off again (home we presumed). We'd sometimes go days without seeing him and the visits were becoming quite sporadic but we liked giving him a bit of attention. We were then away for a few weeks and when we came back the cat no longer had a collar on. After some time of trying to figure out if he belonged to anyone we gave him a little food as he looked unwell and he just decided to stay with us for the night. The next day he disappeared again. He continued to visit but not stay over until one day some time later he decided that this was now going to be his home and barely left at all for about a week. We assumed he had been adandoned because of this behaviour and took him to the local vet to see if he had been microchipped and to get a check up. The vet said he was very dehydrated and needed to be put on a drip for 24 hours and also have a blood test done. They also said he was microchipped and they would try to get hold of the owners.
It turned out that the original owner had lived behind our house and had died about a year ago. The vet said he was still living at the same address though so we assumed the new tenants had taken care of him. The thing that upset me was that despite the vet saying he was very ill and dehydrated, he was back in our garden later that day after the owners went to collect him from the vet.
We are currently helping out the RSPCA with fostering rescue cats and I asked them for advice and I was pretty much told not to get involved. Stop feeding the cat and let the owners deal with it etc. I was very sad about the whole thing as he just didn't seem to be getting the care he needed. I was also quite confused about the fact they'd given the cat a female name when it's a male! I had hoped that after that episode of him going missing for several days that they'd have made more of an effort to keep him in for a while to recover and stop wandering off so much but they haven't and it's made me quite angry.
It has been raining recently and I looked out my bedroom window only to see the poor cat out in the rain going to the toilet in a garden of an abandoned farm house. It breaks my heart really, since when he was with us he barely left our house, especially if it rained! Anyway, he hadn't hung around our garden for long in about a week, but for the past couple of days he's been sitting outside our door as if he expects to be let in. I have felt so bad and I went outside to stroke him and he just sat on my lap and curled up. I left him out and came back inside but he continued to hang around outside. Eventually he went home. Today he was back, sitting outside the door meowing to come in. We are currently fostering another cat but I would've let him in if we weren't.
I am just not sure what to do. I'd love to get in touch with the owners and say that if they don't want him, I'm happy to have him..but that seems rude. I can't keep watching him sit at the door though. I feel terribly sad for him. And when it's warm and we leave the door open it will be hard to keep him out. I really just want what's best for the cat, but I don't believe his owners are taking good care of him.
Does anyone have any advice on what I should do?
Thank you
Dee
I'm new here and I've come with a bit of a problem and seeking some advice so I hope someone can help.
We moved in to a new property in January and at first we noticed a little black cat that kept coming into our garden. At first he ran away and was scared of us, but because we love animals and didn't have any pets of our own we got him to come round and trust us. He would come in the house but we didn't feed him and then he'd wander off again (home we presumed). We'd sometimes go days without seeing him and the visits were becoming quite sporadic but we liked giving him a bit of attention. We were then away for a few weeks and when we came back the cat no longer had a collar on. After some time of trying to figure out if he belonged to anyone we gave him a little food as he looked unwell and he just decided to stay with us for the night. The next day he disappeared again. He continued to visit but not stay over until one day some time later he decided that this was now going to be his home and barely left at all for about a week. We assumed he had been adandoned because of this behaviour and took him to the local vet to see if he had been microchipped and to get a check up. The vet said he was very dehydrated and needed to be put on a drip for 24 hours and also have a blood test done. They also said he was microchipped and they would try to get hold of the owners.
It turned out that the original owner had lived behind our house and had died about a year ago. The vet said he was still living at the same address though so we assumed the new tenants had taken care of him. The thing that upset me was that despite the vet saying he was very ill and dehydrated, he was back in our garden later that day after the owners went to collect him from the vet.
We are currently helping out the RSPCA with fostering rescue cats and I asked them for advice and I was pretty much told not to get involved. Stop feeding the cat and let the owners deal with it etc. I was very sad about the whole thing as he just didn't seem to be getting the care he needed. I was also quite confused about the fact they'd given the cat a female name when it's a male! I had hoped that after that episode of him going missing for several days that they'd have made more of an effort to keep him in for a while to recover and stop wandering off so much but they haven't and it's made me quite angry.
It has been raining recently and I looked out my bedroom window only to see the poor cat out in the rain going to the toilet in a garden of an abandoned farm house. It breaks my heart really, since when he was with us he barely left our house, especially if it rained! Anyway, he hadn't hung around our garden for long in about a week, but for the past couple of days he's been sitting outside our door as if he expects to be let in. I have felt so bad and I went outside to stroke him and he just sat on my lap and curled up. I left him out and came back inside but he continued to hang around outside. Eventually he went home. Today he was back, sitting outside the door meowing to come in. We are currently fostering another cat but I would've let him in if we weren't.
I am just not sure what to do. I'd love to get in touch with the owners and say that if they don't want him, I'm happy to have him..but that seems rude. I can't keep watching him sit at the door though. I feel terribly sad for him. And when it's warm and we leave the door open it will be hard to keep him out. I really just want what's best for the cat, but I don't believe his owners are taking good care of him.
Does anyone have any advice on what I should do?
Thank you
Dee