Hello all, bit of an update

So sorry that I've not been on here for ages. I have split up with my husband, its been very tough and a very trying time, I am getting there though and I hope to be back on here properly very soon, I miss you all.xx

Lots of vibes coming your way!!!
 

Awww hun I'm so sorry to hear it, I hope your ok, only an email away if you want to chat

Oh Ruthy   I wondered where you were. I hope you are doing ok and if you want to chat PM me 

I'm sorry to hear that. No one likes to hear of breakups, but as long as you and the kids/furkids are ok that's the main thing

Lynda saw this and told me this norning. Dreadfully sorry, and I hope you get through it all OK.

Thank you everyone, I'm taking it day by day, I'll be fine in time.x

I'm sorry this happened, Ruthy. I know you'll be OK because you're a strong woman, but it takes time. Keeping you in my thoughts.

I am so sorry sweetheart. I am thinking of your and your family!
 

I'm so sorry Ruthy.

Ruthy, I am sorry to hear this news. I hope you do come back here soon. MIght lift your spirits too .

Sending you lots of and hoping you're ok.

Been there and done that.  It's tough, I know.  Welcome back, and may you avail yourself of the precious feline love and loyalty that surpasses all else on earth!    

Thank you again, I know that I will get through this, things just don't seem that way at the moment.x

Hi Ruthy.... I am sorry you are going through this.... I know it hurts so much.... I know it feels the world is coming to an end and it will never get better.... But I see things differently today.... Know that it is hurting today, but it WILL pass.... And when it is all over with Ruth, you will be so much happier than when you were in that relationship.... I promise you.... Because the thing is, if it ended it was for the best... It was broken, and you were not as happy as you could be....
And you will be happy again! Yes, the transition involves a lot of pain, but in the end it will reward you back with a fuller and happier life Ruthy... You deserve to be happy, and you will be happier and stronger than now and before. Trust that this will pass, and keep going one day at a time sweetie....
Tons of hugs,

Oh Ruthy, I'm so sorry!!!!!!!





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Oh Ruth, I'm so sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself.

 I am so sorry for all the pain you are going through