To determine if it is a boy or a girl when 4 month pregnant? My son and his wife are having their first child and are very excited. They just informed me I'll have a granddaughter. My son is literally jumping with joy, he wanted it to be a girl since the beginning. Not sure how disappointed he will be if the test result was wrong. So, just wondering if it is safe to begin collecting Barbies, Hello Kitty, little purses and pink ribbons?