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For the past 4+ years, I have lived next door to a feral colony in SW Pennsylvania. The woman next door, Diane, had wonderful intentions, but didn't know a great deal about feral cats, so I helped her over the years have all cats TNR'd & get their shots, work to socialize the cats, and help feed them. I am retired, so I was able to sit outside with them every day and work with them. Some of them are more social with me than others. The colony is down from 14 cats originally to 6 currently. I had my uncle make 10 cat boxes, which are fully lined & have fleece bedding, and gave 8 to Diane and kept 2 on my front porch for myself. I have fresh water & dry food on demand every day for them, and I make plates of food for each cat at least once a day with cheese, cooked chicken breast, sometimes canned tuna, and other food they seem to enjoy, along with some goat's milk. Most of the cats mark me, want their ears & heads rubbed, and generally seem to enjoy hanging out with me when I sit outside.
My dilema: One cat in particular, who I have known since she was a kitten, and who I call Puzzle, took up residence in one of the cat boxes on my porch. While the other cats seem to know this is not their home, Puzzle thinks this is her home. Puzzle sits on my lap, likes to be wrapped in a warm blanket on chilly nights and lay in my arms, and is the only cat that 'talks' to me. Conversely, she is also a very skittish, high strung cat. I love all of the cats, but this one in particular tugs at my heart strings. I am moving in a few months, and am brokenhearted about leaving Puzzle behind. I have tried repeatedly over the last several years to bring her inside, and she freaks out every time, wanting no part of this indoor living stuff. I currently have one indoor only, front declawed, 18 year old male cat, and worry about introducing another cat, let alone a feral cat. I know I could cage Puzzle, and bring her with me, but is this fair to her. All she knows is that the whole world she sees is at her disposal and she is free to be the cat she has been for the last 4 years. Is she better off with a shorter harder life of 'wonderful' versus a longer lifetime of 'confinement'? Is it possible to take a feral and bring them inside and have them be happy? I know the woman next door will continue to feed the cats once a day, altho not the rich & varied diet they get from me, and she does not have the time to socialize with them, and for this I feel sad. When I move, I will be moving my cat boxes next door...will Puzzle find her cat box? Will she know to look for food next door? Puzzle seems to be more on the periphery of the colony, I guess because she stayed on my porch from a young age. I am buying a Townhouse/condo, so I cannot bring Puzzle with me to live outdoors.
I am agonizing over this, and am worried that Puzzle will not survive once I am gone. So, I am for information from folks that maybe have been thru this. Thanks in advance for any advice you can offer.
My dilema: One cat in particular, who I have known since she was a kitten, and who I call Puzzle, took up residence in one of the cat boxes on my porch. While the other cats seem to know this is not their home, Puzzle thinks this is her home. Puzzle sits on my lap, likes to be wrapped in a warm blanket on chilly nights and lay in my arms, and is the only cat that 'talks' to me. Conversely, she is also a very skittish, high strung cat. I love all of the cats, but this one in particular tugs at my heart strings. I am moving in a few months, and am brokenhearted about leaving Puzzle behind. I have tried repeatedly over the last several years to bring her inside, and she freaks out every time, wanting no part of this indoor living stuff. I currently have one indoor only, front declawed, 18 year old male cat, and worry about introducing another cat, let alone a feral cat. I know I could cage Puzzle, and bring her with me, but is this fair to her. All she knows is that the whole world she sees is at her disposal and she is free to be the cat she has been for the last 4 years. Is she better off with a shorter harder life of 'wonderful' versus a longer lifetime of 'confinement'? Is it possible to take a feral and bring them inside and have them be happy? I know the woman next door will continue to feed the cats once a day, altho not the rich & varied diet they get from me, and she does not have the time to socialize with them, and for this I feel sad. When I move, I will be moving my cat boxes next door...will Puzzle find her cat box? Will she know to look for food next door? Puzzle seems to be more on the periphery of the colony, I guess because she stayed on my porch from a young age. I am buying a Townhouse/condo, so I cannot bring Puzzle with me to live outdoors.
I am agonizing over this, and am worried that Puzzle will not survive once I am gone. So, I am for information from folks that maybe have been thru this. Thanks in advance for any advice you can offer.