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I'm sure as all of you know, today was St Patrick's Day which means tons of drinking and lots of drunk people roaming the streets as they go to the bar or come home from it.
It was also mine and my boyfriend's second anniversary, as well as our friend's birthday. We went over to his place to celebrate and took the bus. We made sure to take a bus that would be less busy both ways because we just can't stand the drunk students.
We had to come home around 11:00 because it was the last bus that came close to my place. We got here about 11:25, Mike left to go to another one of our friend's homes while I stayed at home because I have to work in the morning and I didn't get a lot of sleep last night. I always watch him from walking towards the main downtown street (700m from my place) because there are always a lot of people walking and sometimes they can cause trouble. They leave you alone if you ignore them, but if you say anything back they'll start to pick a fight. Mike is the type of person that cannot keep his mouth shut if someone starts yelling stuff at him. Of course, tonight as I'm watching him go, a group of three younger kids (probably 19-22) start yelling obscene things at him and he yells back, basically telling them to keep their mouths shut. They start to turn around to approach him, they were about a block away at that point, so I yelled out and told them that I was calling the cops and to just go home. Well then they start yelling at me, not even knowing where I am because they can't see me (all the lights were off in the apartment and my balcony is up high), calling me a rat and a snitch. I wish I could blame in on just being St Patrick's Day and having an over abundance of drunk idiots running around downtown, but I can't. There is a reason that I watch from the balcony until he gets to the main street.
Last week a friend's coworker was sucker punched at a bar that he is a regular at for no reason, his jaw was broken and had to be wired shut. There are stories like this almost every day on the weekend. Two years ago one of my best friends was attacked when someone called his girlfriend something and he asked them to leave just leave them alone. He ended up in the hospital for over a week, lost the sight in one of his eyes, and eventually the eye. We drifted apart about a year later because he never recovered emotionally from it, refused to seek professional help and was depending too much on me, honestly, he was starting to scare me a bit, always talking about getting revenge and things like that.
I love living in the area that I live in, I've lived in the same general area for the last 5 years, it's just getting worse and no one is doing anything about it. The mayor is a joke (seriously, google Joe Fontana and look at some of the ridiculous things he's done and is continuing to do), he cut a lot of programs and funding in the city so that he could keep a campaign promise of a tax freeze - the things he cut would have cost each resident less than $7 a year and were important things like disability accessibility but he kept the funding for the city wading pools and splash parks. I'm sick of all of the violence and people just turning a blind eye to it, citizens but also the people that should be paying attention to it. It seems like they just chalk it up to this being a university/college city but that's no excuse. Is it bad that I feel more comfortable walking around at night in downtown Toronto than I do in the city where I live? I won't even go out if I know I will be walking home alone. If I'm downtown after 10:30 I'll even take a cab home from the main street and it's 700m! I told a cab driver one night why I was taking a cab such a short distance and he said that they get a lot of fares like that and they actually make most of their money with them because they only take a few minutes and the person usually tips half the fare.
Sorry about the little rant but I'm just getting to sick of it and so disappointed that it's gotten to this point. I've lived here now for over 7 years and have been coming here on my own for over 10, with my parents for over 20. It never used to be this bad.
It was also mine and my boyfriend's second anniversary, as well as our friend's birthday. We went over to his place to celebrate and took the bus. We made sure to take a bus that would be less busy both ways because we just can't stand the drunk students.
We had to come home around 11:00 because it was the last bus that came close to my place. We got here about 11:25, Mike left to go to another one of our friend's homes while I stayed at home because I have to work in the morning and I didn't get a lot of sleep last night. I always watch him from walking towards the main downtown street (700m from my place) because there are always a lot of people walking and sometimes they can cause trouble. They leave you alone if you ignore them, but if you say anything back they'll start to pick a fight. Mike is the type of person that cannot keep his mouth shut if someone starts yelling stuff at him. Of course, tonight as I'm watching him go, a group of three younger kids (probably 19-22) start yelling obscene things at him and he yells back, basically telling them to keep their mouths shut. They start to turn around to approach him, they were about a block away at that point, so I yelled out and told them that I was calling the cops and to just go home. Well then they start yelling at me, not even knowing where I am because they can't see me (all the lights were off in the apartment and my balcony is up high), calling me a rat and a snitch. I wish I could blame in on just being St Patrick's Day and having an over abundance of drunk idiots running around downtown, but I can't. There is a reason that I watch from the balcony until he gets to the main street.
Last week a friend's coworker was sucker punched at a bar that he is a regular at for no reason, his jaw was broken and had to be wired shut. There are stories like this almost every day on the weekend. Two years ago one of my best friends was attacked when someone called his girlfriend something and he asked them to leave just leave them alone. He ended up in the hospital for over a week, lost the sight in one of his eyes, and eventually the eye. We drifted apart about a year later because he never recovered emotionally from it, refused to seek professional help and was depending too much on me, honestly, he was starting to scare me a bit, always talking about getting revenge and things like that.
I love living in the area that I live in, I've lived in the same general area for the last 5 years, it's just getting worse and no one is doing anything about it. The mayor is a joke (seriously, google Joe Fontana and look at some of the ridiculous things he's done and is continuing to do), he cut a lot of programs and funding in the city so that he could keep a campaign promise of a tax freeze - the things he cut would have cost each resident less than $7 a year and were important things like disability accessibility but he kept the funding for the city wading pools and splash parks. I'm sick of all of the violence and people just turning a blind eye to it, citizens but also the people that should be paying attention to it. It seems like they just chalk it up to this being a university/college city but that's no excuse. Is it bad that I feel more comfortable walking around at night in downtown Toronto than I do in the city where I live? I won't even go out if I know I will be walking home alone. If I'm downtown after 10:30 I'll even take a cab home from the main street and it's 700m! I told a cab driver one night why I was taking a cab such a short distance and he said that they get a lot of fares like that and they actually make most of their money with them because they only take a few minutes and the person usually tips half the fare.
Sorry about the little rant but I'm just getting to sick of it and so disappointed that it's gotten to this point. I've lived here now for over 7 years and have been coming here on my own for over 10, with my parents for over 20. It never used to be this bad.