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My cat is neurotic. My family keeps trying to tell me that she takes after her owner...
Rocky loves everybody. She also loved my boyfriend when I first started going out with him. That lasted for about 3 months. Then I moved to a new apartment, and he found her in a cupboard over the fridge and promptly pulled her out. I think the combination of moving and being scared by him took it's toll, because she started hiding, peeing, pooping, growling and hissing, but only at him.
My problem now is that it's 2 years later, he has moved in with me, and things are even weirder. She'll let him pet her or even lie with him if he's on the couch, but then for no apparent reason she'll growl and hiss and run. She also always hisses and growls if he's standing. This in itself wouldn't bother me so much, but he's around in the day when I'm at work and things get worse. She hides, usually in the litter box, for the entire day until I walk in the door. If he goes out and comes back, she'll poop on the floor as she tries to run away to the litter box.
I set up a different box beside her litter with a lid so that she could hide without getting covered, but she'll poop and pee in that too. He's tried giving her treats, and now she's his best friend as long as he's on the couch. But the second he moves...
There are 2 main things that bother me.
1. She liked him at first, and loves everyone else in the world (even large groups).
2. Even if she just didn't like him that would be okay, but I am really getting tired of cleaning up the rug every other day and giving her baths all the time because she's covered in litter.
We are moving to a new apartment soon and I'd rather not ruin another rug.
Sorry this is so long, but I'm desperate! Please help me if you can.
Thanks, Janelle
My cat is neurotic. My family keeps trying to tell me that she takes after her owner...
Rocky loves everybody. She also loved my boyfriend when I first started going out with him. That lasted for about 3 months. Then I moved to a new apartment, and he found her in a cupboard over the fridge and promptly pulled her out. I think the combination of moving and being scared by him took it's toll, because she started hiding, peeing, pooping, growling and hissing, but only at him.
My problem now is that it's 2 years later, he has moved in with me, and things are even weirder. She'll let him pet her or even lie with him if he's on the couch, but then for no apparent reason she'll growl and hiss and run. She also always hisses and growls if he's standing. This in itself wouldn't bother me so much, but he's around in the day when I'm at work and things get worse. She hides, usually in the litter box, for the entire day until I walk in the door. If he goes out and comes back, she'll poop on the floor as she tries to run away to the litter box.
I set up a different box beside her litter with a lid so that she could hide without getting covered, but she'll poop and pee in that too. He's tried giving her treats, and now she's his best friend as long as he's on the couch. But the second he moves...
There are 2 main things that bother me.
1. She liked him at first, and loves everyone else in the world (even large groups).
2. Even if she just didn't like him that would be okay, but I am really getting tired of cleaning up the rug every other day and giving her baths all the time because she's covered in litter.
We are moving to a new apartment soon and I'd rather not ruin another rug.
Sorry this is so long, but I'm desperate! Please help me if you can.
Thanks, Janelle