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My husband and I moved into our neighborhood about two years ago and we have been taking care ofa good six ferals daily. We learned the hard way that we needed to trap them after a good four litters of kittens were brought to us. We have trapped any and all of them that would go into the trap. Only two males refuse to go in. The last round of kittens to be brough to us were much older. The vets thinks they were 5 months old. One had to be released back out bc he just couldn't calm down and injured himself trying to escape (the vet treated the injury before we released him). The other two we brought in in an attempt to socialize. One is male and the other is female. The male is just about ready to be adopted he's friendly he purrs etc. the female is still hissing and growling after a good 7 weeks. However, she doesnt hide as much and sometimes stays out in the room with us. She even started to plays and even takes treats from our hands so I know we have made great.progress. Our problem is we don't have a lot of time at all. If we spend a half hour per day w them it's a lot. A friend of mine that has extensive experience socializing kittens (and who has a lot more time) took them on Friday last week to work with them. She agrees that the male is great but told me she doesn't think Mini can be socialiized and suggested we release her. I really don't think that is best for her. My friend is already able to pet her tummy but she is worried that she is not purring yet. She has only had them for four days so despite her experience, I think her expectation of purring is very premature especially since we rarely were able to pet her. We are taking them back from my friend eventually and want to try to work w her so she could get adopted but I'm worried she won't adjust to anyone else if she bonds w us. We have four cats inside already and w the other 6 outside we really cannot add another cat to our household. I have tried calling shelters but everyone gives me the same answer....they can't help don't have time etc. I won't bring her to a shelter for fear they will put her to sleep. We would love to find one patient home for both of then so they could stay together but we do not want to keep holding the boy and keeping him from getting adopted since he is just about ready. Please offer any advice, thoughts or suggestions you may have. We are at a loss for what to do here. Thanks so much.