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Ok here's the situation. I recently got a 10 week old male Bengal kitten, he's as sweet as can be. LOVES to play constantly, always wants to be around you. I brought him to our apartment exactly 2 weeks ago. He immediately loved to explore the place.

Fast forward to yesterday, we brought home another Bengal cat, she's 18 weeks old. Alone, she is also sweet as hell, and gentle. She was just spayed exactly a week ago, and still has the scar visible and everything. She wasn't like the boy Bengal, she was extremely timid upon arriving. I put her in a separate room to isolate her and let her get acquainted with everything, and after about an hour was very willing to play. I kept in her in the room.

Now, here's the thing. My wife was extremely eager and excited to want to introduce them to each other, but I kept thinking it's not a good idea just yet, we'd just brought home the female cat...it's way too soon. Through repeated begging from my wife, I finally agreed, BUT only for a few minutes.

Immediately when I brought the little boy kitten into her room, he ran up to her, being very curious and wanting to play it seemed, but she immediately arched her back, growling, hissing, and this made the kitten do the same.

They seemed particularly aggressive, but weren't hitting each other or fighting. Just stood there, growling a lot and arching their backs. Eventually the kitten started walking around the room, and the new girl kept going close to him and the arching and hissing started again. Back and forth. Then she followed him around some boxes, sniffing his behind, and he turns around, arching/hissing starts again.

Then they exchanged some swipes against each other, hissing loudly.... Then he began sniffing her from behind, and when she noticed this, arching/growling again begins. On to my question:

Is this behavior due to a number of factors like:

-She was just had surgery a week ago, she feels vulnerable/hurt
-First day home, she has no idea where she is
-Immediately introduced to new cat

Edit: Sorry for long post, just hoping it won't always be like this. I KNEW not to introduce them right away...ugh
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First of all, welcome to TCS. wavey.gif

In short, yes, your female cat is reacting normally, considering her situation. Quite frankly, I think you're quite lucky they haven't gotten into a full-fledged fight yet. But don't worry, this can easily be fixed. You have two options:

1. Leave the situation as-is and let them adjust to each other. The girl cat may never come around and love the boy cat, but she will probably learn to tolerate him. (Not a guarantee. They may fight forever.)

2. Do a slow re-introduction. Leave the girl cat in the bathroom or her safe room by herself for a few days. (Cats really don't mind small spaces, though I suggest you provide ample play toys/trees since she's a Bengal.) This way she can hear and smell the other cat, but not see him yet. Then start letting her out supervised for periods of time to explore the house. Put the boy cat in a separate room during this stage. When she seems to be confident in her mastery of the house's layout, let her meet the boy cat face-to-face while you're supervising and see what happens. There will almost certainly be hissing and swatting for a few hours or days, but it should subside. Note that this method does not guarantee happy cats either, just makes it more likely they'll love and/or tolerate each other.

I recommend method 2. agree.gif

Good luck!!! vibes.gif

PS -- If you want to introduce yourself to the forum members, you can head over to New Cats on the Block and post a thread about yourself and your furfamily. We all love to see pictures. clap.gif
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