Hello, I am new here. Last month I decided after much thought to get a cat as a pet. I figured a bit of an older cat was fine because most times if cared for they are all up to date with shots and spayed & neutered. My daughter is 17 and works at a grocery store. She asked a customer buying a lot of cat food if she knew of anyone who had a cat that needed a home. She did and we got in touch with the woman. I was totally and completely unaware of what we got into. I haven't had a pet in many years. We took home a 8-9 month old female calico cat. I knew the cat had been rescued & I knew she had been born outside. She was healthy, had all her shots etc. The woman who had her said she had the cat for 5 months. I never actually put much thought into it, but I realized later the cat had been living outside for months. I still wanted a pet for my kids. I was told she was shy and liked the stay in the woman's closet, but she came out to greet her and eat in the morning. I did talk to the lady for a bit and she told me that she knew she would come around with lots of love and attention. When we got her home & took her out of her cage she took off like a bat out of hell. I mean she ran at lightening speed. She did allow us to touch her and pet her. She never bit, hissed or scratched. She was so scared and found a spot on top of our microwave. When we woke up the next morning she was nowhere to be found! For days we didn't see her. She never came out to eat, or use the litter box. Finally one morning the food was touched but she went the bathroom on our couch. To our surprise 2 days later my daughter found her hiding in a very tiny spot in the top of her closet! We put the litter box and food up there and there she has stayed for the last 2 weeks. We moved some things around in the closet to give her more room but she has found another spot to hide in. She has squeezed herself so tight on top of a milk crate in the closet. So we took a milk crate down. She was not happy and found another one to squeeze on top of. It seems like she's so crammed in there but she seems okay. Maybe I'm worrying about more than the cat. She does come out but only very late at night when my daughter is sleeping. She eats, uses the litter box but quickly runs back to her hiding spot. Last night my daughter said she felt her on her bed as she slept so she moved and just like that the cat ran away in the closet again.
I felt terrible as we wanted a family pet and until today I had no IDEA what a feral cat was. I talked to someone from the animal shelter and she told me. I thought we just had a scared cat on our hands. Last week I also got a kitten for my kids because I felt so bad that they couldn't have a pet they actually got to see and interact with. I don't have the heart to confuse the poor cat and give her back so I decided to keep both cats anyways. I'm hoping over time she will come around. Will she ever? I mean she's as cute as anything, I go up there and talk to her in the closet sometimes but I don't get to close because she seems so scared.
Honestly I probably would not have taken her in if I had known this to begin with. Please don't take that the wrong way. I just wish I was educated a little bit about feral cats before hand. Like I said I'm keeping her and I'm hoping over time she will come out. She never leaves the room, even when the door is open. She stays in her hiding spot. Any advice on what to do?
I felt terrible as we wanted a family pet and until today I had no IDEA what a feral cat was. I talked to someone from the animal shelter and she told me. I thought we just had a scared cat on our hands. Last week I also got a kitten for my kids because I felt so bad that they couldn't have a pet they actually got to see and interact with. I don't have the heart to confuse the poor cat and give her back so I decided to keep both cats anyways. I'm hoping over time she will come around. Will she ever? I mean she's as cute as anything, I go up there and talk to her in the closet sometimes but I don't get to close because she seems so scared.
Honestly I probably would not have taken her in if I had known this to begin with. Please don't take that the wrong way. I just wish I was educated a little bit about feral cats before hand. Like I said I'm keeping her and I'm hoping over time she will come out. She never leaves the room, even when the door is open. She stays in her hiding spot. Any advice on what to do?