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Do kittens have a rebellious phase?

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Hi everyone smile.gif

Boots, my former feral baby, is now 6 months old. He was neutered at 4 months. And he's been undergoing a bit of a personality change lately.

Since we've been home at my parents' for Christmas, he seems much more affectionate to me than usual. He has always followed me around from room to room, but for the past 3 weeks or so he seems to want much more petting and belly rubs than usual. I'm not complaining of course laughing02.gif But I'm just wondering why he seems to be more attached to me. It could just be a reaction to the traveling/new house/new people/dog that he's been dealing with. He's not more affectionate to anyone else, really. He lets people besides me pet him now, which he didn't used to, but that's been going on for some time.

The reason I ask about rebelliousness is because, at the same time he's been more loving, he's also started to give me little bites. Not very often, and he never seems agitated when he's biting me. It doesn't happen while I'm petting him. Usually, we'll be sitting together on my bed, and I'll be reading or on my laptop, and I'll feel his tiny little teeth sinking gently into my leg. I put my book down to look at him in disbelief, and he just looks at me like "Yeah? What?" laughing02.gif I thought I'd trained him out of biting as a kitten, with puffs of air in his face and loud "NO!"s, but apparently not.

I know some cats give love bites -- Kramer does, and I've been trying to train him out of it rolleyes.gif Maybe Boots is learning it from him. But these don't seem to be love bites, as he isn't purring or snuggling me or anything when it happens. It just seems like he knows he's not supposed to be biting me, but he wants to do it just to see what my reaction is, like a teenager cursing around their parents. laughing02.gif

Anyway, TIA to those of you who read this and take the time to reply. wavey.gif
post #2 of 5

I'm sure someone who's raised more kittens will be able to offer more insight, but from experience, it's very possible he's testing his boundaries. At 6 months he is moving into the adolescent range so it's possible he's testing you and trying to determine his place in the household 'colony.'

 

I know Sybil's kittens (especially the two with dominant personalities) had moments where I swear thy did things just to see if they got a reaction from us or from Sybil. laughing02.gif

post #3 of 5

Aren't cats just rebellious??  laughing02.gif laughing02.gif laughing02.gif

 

I think he's just exerting his personality and learning the boundaries.  AND...he's becoming a teenager, so yes, he's being rebellious!  LOL

post #4 of 5

When I changed the house, my 3 year old did get closer to me.

post #5 of 5
I think that they can be rebellious, but I think that often shows up as doing something they really know not to do, mine are even looking some object, then me, back to object and then tossing it off from table and then looking at me while I say bad kitty and they show it that they knew it was wrong, but still had to do it, I guess it is testing the limits thing.

Most misbehaving of mine is such that if I puff on his face he half closes his eyes and puts on "I don't know anything about anything" face, then might even come and stick his nose to my lip while examining, but then again lemon lures him instead of repelling, so nothing really tells him to stay off or not allowed, only when I put my finger up and say no to him he understands it, but it is completely another matter if it has any other effect.

These young ones tend to sometimes nibble a bit when they want attention, don't know if it is in op's case, but I have found mine to gently put teeths on my skin when wanting attention, when overly affectionate, being petted too much and of course when playing wrestling.

They don't bite so that it would hurt.

Then they bite each other when getting sleep, that one which is most misbehaving is usually one to bite other one from scuff of neck, or more of take grip on, some form of social order thing maybe, he is male and thinks he is boss perhaps, but I think his sister will show him where to be some day.
I sometimes mimic his actions so I grab him from neck with fingertips, not hard of course, just hold his neck and he seem to like it somehow, between cats it is bonding thing too, I guess, don't know if he actually is thinking same from that as I am, but he does cheek rubbing after that and express happiness, which he does almost constantly anyway laughing02.gif

Mine learned not to bite or claw so hard when I loudly screamed OW! each time such happened, now they understands to be more gentle, minus some mishaps with feather toy where suddenly there is cat hanging from my body skin with his claws as trying to climb higher to get those feathers, they forget so much when they get exited.
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