Hubby and I are facing a major dilemma and I thought maybe some of you would have some advice or can share their experience -
The question is whether to send Ron to day care this year or to keep him at home with me.
He is 19 months old and we already found a good day care center. He will be in a group of 15 toddler ages 15 months to 2 years (at the beginning of the year). There will be 4 caregivers there with the children. We have seen many places before choosing this one and we are happy with the caring easy going nature of the staff. The facility is also clean and they keep the toddlers busy with a variety of activities. It's not cheap - twice the price of subsidised kinder gardens. If Ron goes he will be there from 7 AM to 4 PM.
Still, we (especially I) have some misgivings. Is it too young to seperate Ron from his home environment? I work from home and I can manage keeping him at home. Granted, it will cut down on my work time, but then again I'm due in November so I won't have a lot of work time anyway...
Right now Ron is living in a small paradise. He has constant attention from me, his dad and his loving grandparents (hubby's parents who live next door). I didn't see that much interaction between toddlers his age when I spent some time baby watching in the day care center. I think he mainly needs interaction with his mom and family right now.
Hubby says that although staying at home would probably be best for Ron, it would be too much of a sacrifice for me to make. He says that although I'm willing to make that sacrifice and I think I'll enjoy being with Ron (and later both Ron and his little brother), it would be too hard on me and I would get tired of it and frustrated.
I just don't know what to do. Any parents here can share their experience?
The question is whether to send Ron to day care this year or to keep him at home with me.
He is 19 months old and we already found a good day care center. He will be in a group of 15 toddler ages 15 months to 2 years (at the beginning of the year). There will be 4 caregivers there with the children. We have seen many places before choosing this one and we are happy with the caring easy going nature of the staff. The facility is also clean and they keep the toddlers busy with a variety of activities. It's not cheap - twice the price of subsidised kinder gardens. If Ron goes he will be there from 7 AM to 4 PM.
Still, we (especially I) have some misgivings. Is it too young to seperate Ron from his home environment? I work from home and I can manage keeping him at home. Granted, it will cut down on my work time, but then again I'm due in November so I won't have a lot of work time anyway...
Right now Ron is living in a small paradise. He has constant attention from me, his dad and his loving grandparents (hubby's parents who live next door). I didn't see that much interaction between toddlers his age when I spent some time baby watching in the day care center. I think he mainly needs interaction with his mom and family right now.
Hubby says that although staying at home would probably be best for Ron, it would be too much of a sacrifice for me to make. He says that although I'm willing to make that sacrifice and I think I'll enjoy being with Ron (and later both Ron and his little brother), it would be too hard on me and I would get tired of it and frustrated.
I just don't know what to do. Any parents here can share their experience?