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Hello all,

I come to you to share my worries and read your ideas on the terrible situation I have been living lately.

Two months ago I adopted Sofi, a gorgeous calico kitten who is now 3 months and a half. After years wanting to get a cat but my parents never allowing one in the house, she is just a dream come true to me. Not to mention she overcame all of my expectations being the funniest, smartest, most loving creature in the entire world.

But Sofi is a very dependent kitten that will only play if you are around and seem sad if you have been gone a few hours more than she expects. It was for that reason that I wanted to find another kitten for her to have a sibling and play when we are out of the house at work.

So my search began and I first encountered a kitten that was recovering from malnutrition an ringworm. When I saw him the first time he put his paw in my face. I instantly got my heart melted... We named him Mau and waited for his treatment to be over so we could adopt him without any risk for our baby girl. But when I insisted they took him for the FIV and FLV tests something went really wrong. In a course of a week he was staying in the hospital and last tuesday he was put to sleep. He had severe liver and kidney failure due to a inborn condition of the heart. It broke my heart to lose him since we went see him every other day and had so many hopes for him being happy home with us...

So at the beggining I thought of never adopting another kitten but then I looked at Sofi and thought I had to do it for her, so I begun looking. That's when I found Eki, a 2 month old siamese kitten picked up by a good person from the streets with his sister. I adopted him and brought him home last thursday. He had been tested negative of FIV and FLV and was in a general good health condition. He had had diarrhea before but the vet that saw him thought it had more to do with the change of diet and was perfectly healthy when I took him home. That night he slept alone in the bathroom, but the next day by accident the kittens met. And they loved each other almost instantly. Eki loves Sofi to bits, he calls her is she is with me in another room, they play, sleep together and groom each other and they looked so happy! I was finally recovering from the heartbreak of loosing Mau.

On Friday morning I heard Eki cough and woke up worried. Brought him to the vet (the one the shelter where I adopted Sofi trusts) and she prescribed some antibiotics. She also thought he had an swollen belly due to probably worms since he had been given the treatment for that just two days earlier. He doesnt' cough anymore but he sneezes some times. Hot steam from bathes helps him a lot. He plays and eats just fine.

The real nightmare starts here. By Sunday aftenoon I realised Sofi was acting different than she usually is. She was tired, and sleeping too much. She is such an active kitten, I got worried so I thought I'd try putting her in front of her food... she didn't eat. I took some canned food which she normally would kill for but she didn't touch it. I called the emergency vet... Told him the syntoms and he didn't think I needed to worry but told me that I should check her temperature just in case. She was 40,5ºC... I rushed her to the emergency vet.

The vet said that she was probably just fighting off some virus but she was in a good healthy state so far. Gave her a shot of antiinflamatory medicine and prescribed low dosage of the oral version for the subsecuent two days. She was eating something even at the vet's office and when we came home she was also eating and even playing. The next day she didn't have a fever and ate normally in the morning.

But seeing her letargic still I thought I should call the vet (the one that works with the shelter) and tell her. She told me I had to give her some antibiotics too so I started to give her some.

The next morning she was worse again and refused to eat for the whole day. I found vomit in the morning and also some diarrhea. She refused taking the antibiotics and drool when I tried to. She also fought me when I tried to give her liquid or force fed her. She was in a very week condition and I was not eating or sleeping worrying sick about her. So I called the emergency vet again at night and he told me to try another version of the antibiotic but it wasn't doing it for her either.

Yesterday I took her to the vet and she is there now. The veterinarian told me that she was a healthy kitten and I shouldn't have brought Eki home without testing him for FIP... she said she thought she had FIP from him... And made me feel so guilty... I still feel like that now

Other than fever she doesn't have any symptoms, the vet says she had jaudice yesterday night but when she tried to show me today she didn't anymore. She is sure of the diagnosis and even though Sofi is now eating and has no fever, she still thinks is FIP...
 
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But Eki was not presenting syntoms of FIP... his belly went back to normal and he is playing and eating well. Today I found he vomited and wondered if Sofi was not who did the other day. He also has some loose stool, but it is not severe, and most of it is normal. His sister is healthy too.

Today when we visited Sofi, the light was back in her eyes and she was mewing (she is a very, very talkative kitten) it gave me hope in spite of the very bad pronognsis.

The vet said we are going to fight the FIP and she says that we could win it... says that more than 25% of cats recover with feline interferon. I don't know, I have the hope that she is wrong about the diagnosis, and think she doesn't know much about the illness herself. She says is more common than it is thought and that is very infectious, taking only a few days to get other cat sick. Says if she didn't think Sofi could make it she would tell me and not give me hope. I think she got it wrong, what do you guys think?

I haven't eating at all and I can't sleep. I am a mess and work with people (I'm a psychotherapist) and I have so much anxiety I feel I'm going crazy. I only tasted some food today after seeing my baby girl, because she looked sooooooooo much better. She gave me so much hope. But I am afraid is really FIP and that Eki has it too... Tomorrow they will give me the test results and I cannot think straight. I can't handle loosing them, loosing the best thing I ever had which is Sofi. I love her with evey inch of me and never ever wanted to cause her any harm, I just wanted her to be the happiest kitten in the world.
 

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Oh I'm so sorry to read this! I too had to wait until I moved out and got a job to get my kitty so I know how important they are! I really hope it's not FIP. I guess my question is...was Sofi tested for FIV/FeLV when you first got her? I ask because if she was positive then she would be at much greater risk of catching something from another cat (Eki). I don't know much about FIP, but lots of people here do and they will help you out. Anyway I just hope everything works out and your baby gets better!
 
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Thank you so much for your response!

Sofi was tested negative 2 weeks ago for FIV and FeLV. She's also been vaccinated then and acoording to the vet her health was admirable.

I will let you know how this turns out and thank you for the vibes, she needs them!
 

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She told me I had to give her some antibiotics too so I started to give her some.

The next morning she was worse again and refused to eat for the whole day. I found vomit in the morning and also some diarrhea. 
The veterinarian told me that she was a healthy kitten and I shouldn't have brought Eki home without testing him for FIP... 
There is no definitive test for FIP: diagnosis is based on symptoms, ruling out other health issues, and concurrent lab results that fit with the FIP profile. So this vet is scaring and blaming you for no good reason. I would find a new vet after this experience.  


The vet said we are going to fight the FIP and she says that we could win it... says that more than 25% of cats recover with feline interferon. 
Would love to know where she's getting that info from. Interferon is incredibly expensive and there are have been no studies that support its effectiveness against FIP. 

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She says is more common than it is thought and that is very infectious, taking only a few days to get other cat sick.


It is quite likely more common than we know, but it isn't actually all that infectious. There are many factors that go into the full-on development of FIP, the most important one being the mutation of the coronavirus and the inability of a cat's immune system to deal with it. There is likely a hereditary factor, as well as a stress factor (which is why it's more common in catteries and shelters). To imply that if one cat has FIP, it will for sure give it to another cat comes across as fear-mongering to me. 

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because she looked sooooooooo much better. 

Then if it were me, I'd go get her and bring her home. What are they doing at the vet's that you can't do yourself? 

One other question, when in the timeline of this whole situation was Sofi vaccinated, and what vaccines did she receive?
 
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Sofi got the same antibiotics Eki is getting, Doxycycline. Today he woke me up again because he was womiting and then had diarrhea. Poor baby boy. He still plays all the time and seems otherwise healthy. Nevertheless I am bringing him to the vet tomorrow. Maybe you are right and it's just an effect of the antibiotic.

I don't understand either the diagnosis of FIP in this case. Even less so considering that she didn't even see Sofi when she told me that. I had just walked through the door and she was still in her carrier. But she seems fixed in that diagnosis and I don't see her changing her opinion or checking for other possibilities. Would you recomend me getting a second opinion? the problem is, every single decission has to go through her because I signed in the adoption contract that they are entitled to decide even if my kittens have to be put to sleep or not. I read some mixed studies about interferon and I guess I could try but... what if the diagnosis is wrong? I don't want to be in denial but to me there is no evidence yet that FIP is causing the symptoms.

I do think it was fear mongering but it really worked in that moment and somehow it still does. I am terrified. Reasoning I know I couldn't have prevented any othe these and I know ther is no realliable diagnostic test that I could have made Eki before getting him home. Plus, Sofi is not really a shelter kitten, and neither is Eki. They both were found by their foster parents and remained there until I picked them up. Sofi lived about 2 weeks there and there was only another older cat in the house. And Eki wasn't even two weeks in his foster home, and shared it with 4 more cats and his sister, none of them presents any symptoms.
 

Maybe now that she is eating and all I could take her home. But Sofi was vomiting the medicine, not eating or drinking and had lost 200 gr in 3 days. I don't know but I feel a bit safer knowing she is recieving the liquids she needs and the medicine and it can really begin to work. But if she is better again today and eats more or less normally I will take her home with me.

Sofi was vaccinated 11 days before Eki got home. She was vaccinated with Feligen CRP. Eki was vaccinated two days before I took him home, same vaccine.

Thank you so much for your help and the link. I am going to become a freaking expert on that disgusting dissease...
 
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