Marmite

This is my first post but I had to say I'm so very sorry for your lost.As I sit here and cry for you I know how very hard this is.I was also told Saturday that my beautiful boy Oreo has cancer (the vet feels) but doing 2 medications at this time.Mermite had wonderful loving humans that was caring for her as she was like a newborn.You done a great job.I could  feel your pain as you have been struggling to make her better.Rainbow Bridge has a beautiful angel now and she is watching over you.God Bless Both of you.Hugs to you friends.

I  am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby.

Hello Biscuit,

I am very sorry for your loss! I remember you supported me when my Lili died last week and i wrote here... You were worried about your kitty Marmite and I wished her to be OK....

You did your best, be sure. You stayed with her, tried to help her, but someone or something decided that it's her time to go.... It's cruel, I know. You are now asking thousand questions maybe, why Marmite, why not other cat that nobody would miss her or a cat that is unhappy...?

When my Lili died, I didn't eat for 3 days and I woke up every morning at 2am, crying. I was devastated and i didn't want to live. Seriously, I thought that her death happened on purpose, against me. She was one of the most precious beings i had...

It helped me to write it down, to write the whole story several times, how everything happened. I even wrote a 3 page story of Lili, from the moment we brought her to our apartment, her first moments, how she was different from her sister, about her kidney problems, about her babies, everything about her.

I created a photo book (an album) of all pictures of Lili. It will remind you all the beautiful moments you had with your kitty. I plan to bury her ashes in the forest close to our apparent. I will join a photo of 4 of us: my husband, Lumi (her son), Mina (her sister) and me and i will write a short text on the other side. To keep us with her.

This is my way of dealing with the pain, everyone is different. Just take as much time as you need. Don't worry about other people's comments or remarks, saying that it was just a cat, they can't understand. My father told me last week, that other worse things can happen and yesterday he called me asking if I forgot already...????  

It doesn't hurt so much as it did last week, but we still miss her. Last night i dreamt about her, that we went to the hospital and she was alive... and then i woke up and cry....

Marmite knew that you loved her. She will now rest peacefully.

Love to you and your familly.

I'm so sorry for your loss of Marmite  Your bound to be hurting now, but if you need to talk you know there's always someone in here

Have fun at the Bridge  Marmite

I am so very sorry about the passing of your beloved Marmite. Although I am new to this forum I have appreciated your replies to me this last week and I have read all your posts on Marmite. I write this amidst a watery blur of tears  - rest in peace Marmite  ....what a very loved pussy cat you were ... your purrs and pawprints will last forever in your mummy and daddy's hearts. Take strength in the fact that you loved her so much and were so brave in doing that final service for her. Purrs from Katie and me.

So sorry about Marmite, we lost our little Elmo to congestive heart failure December 5th also...

With sympathy...

Marmite

It might help to remember all the fun times about Marmite's life with you, the time together, you know.  That unique story that belong to Marmite and only Marmite.  As I grieve my own loss, I somehow feel that my cat would not want me to be sad to the point where I was really down.  I think our cats want us to be as happy as possible.  At least a bit as happy as we have made their lives as well.  Remember, they love us and care about us as well.