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Older cat over-playing with new cat

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I've had Myri for about a month now, and she and Rodney spend most of the time with both having the run of the house.  The problem is that Rodney (who is at least 6 months older than her and quite a bit bigger) doesn't seem to understand that Myri might not want to wrestle around as much as he does.

 

After a bit of wrestling around, Myri either runs away (with Rodney chasing right behind her) or yowls.  He doesn't seem to understand that those signals mean she doesn't want to play any more and continues.  I've seen times when Myri has tried to burrow under her pet bed to get away from him.  I try breaking them up, but usually within a few minutes, Rodney pounces again.  I've tried a spray bottle, but that doesn't seem to deter him for long.

 

I've also noticed that he occasionally bites the back of her neck when they're playing, which usually causes her to yowl.  Any ideas what that's about?

 

When he's not in a playing mood, they're fine, but it seems like he's usually in a playing mood when I'm home.

 

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I assume your kitties are neutered and spayed... but males biting the neck of females is a component of cat mating. laughing02.gif

And, just let them play. Cats take a looooong time to establish the pecking order, and it's a constantly changing thing. As long as there's no fur or blood flying, your cats should be fine. (Mine do this too, complete with hissing and yowling, and then 20 minutes later they groom each other and snuggle.)
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