Hello! guys this is my first post in this forum so please pardon for any mistakes in advance.
I adopted a stray cat when she was 3 or so months. I found her in my yard. She was abandoned by her mother. She was skinny i petty her and took her in. Although, she got used to me and i trained her too for a couple of tricks like chasing a ball, jumping for a thread-ball etc; but she never fully accepted me, as in when i would take her in our home she used to shout as for looking for escape and i had to take her outside. That said i occasionally pet her on head and back but not on belly.
I took good care of her for about 4 months. Now she is adult as she has passed 6 months. The other reason i am saying is that she is adult because she meows alot at home and in search of life partner. Even when we give her food and she eats it. She meows in a loud voice at every one at home. Which is kind of very annoying and embarissing
Now i want you guys to advice me on how to deal with her? I have thought of few ways to stop this behaviour.
I have thought of stop giving her food. But the harsh weather has discouraged me to do so because the cat may not survive in it.
How do Cats find a life partner for themselves? i think that could also fix her heat cycles. But i don't know she is not able to find one and constantly being annoying.
What should i do about? i know a lot of you might think i should not have adopted it in first place. But i was not aware of what might happen to her if she can not find a partner for her self.
Lastly, give any suggestions other than calling Animal Control Center. I live in a developing country and there are no such organizations
Thanks











! And thank you for taking in this kitten! She will definitely stop the howling and meowing once you get her spayed. She is in heat and that is why she is being "loud". Can you get her to a vet for this? It sounds like you really love this kitty and she has a good home with you. She is a kitten and wants to play. If you can, spend some time each day playing with her, those wand toys are great activities to share with kittens. But don't leave the wand toys out where the kitten can reach them. She could chew and eat the string and that would be bad. Good luck and get her spayed very soon 




She will go into heat at least several times per year. Cats do not mate with one partner, and they do not partner for life. A female can be impregnated by any number of males, and any litter of kittens can all have several fathers. And the behavior you describe is a cat in heat. So either you just take your chance that she considers where you live "home," and she comes back after her need to mate... and you figure out what to do with the kittens she will bring you! ... or you see if you can figure out a way to afford to have her spayed. 

Can you pick her up ?
If she is not that tame, then you might have to resort to trapping her in a crate. Meaning, feed her in the crate for a few days. Then once she is comfortable eating in the crate, sit quietly near the door, and close it quickly, and gently while she is inside eating. OR you might have to use one of those Havahart traps. But if you can pick her up and hold her now, you might just be able to get her into a crate. I find the crates that open from the top, are the easiest to get the cat's into.