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I have had Johnny (2.5 y/o male, neutered) for about 2 years. He came from a shelter, but was the only cat in my apartment until about a week ago. Cid (4-6 y/o female, spayed) came from the same shelter.

Unfortunately, I did not introduce them properly. Half of it was from ignorance of not researching on how to bring a new cat into the home, the other half was that I do not have enough space to have a "safe" room to keep them separated.

At first, Johnny was ticked off that I brought another cat home. Cid mostly hid under the bed. They are at the "I don't like you, but I shall tolerate you" phase, which is fine by me. I totally understand that my cats may never be best friends.

What I don't understand is that for the past two or three nights, Johnny has gotten in this mood where he will go after Cid. He'll run up behind her and pounce. I don't think that he's trying to mount her. The part that worries me is that he doesn't let up. Cid will end up on her back, hissing, and claws out at Johnny. She'll run, but Johnny will continue to stalk her for a few minutes. And then they're fine. Only once in these last few nights has Cid been so distressed that she tried to run away and get up the cat tower, but almost fell off from being so crazed.

Can anyone give me some input as to whether they are fighting or playing? Also, are there any other steps that I can take to make the acclimation of the cats easier (both on them and on me)?

Thanks!
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Can anyone give me some input as to whether they are fighting or playing? Also, are there any other steps that I can take to make the acclimation of the cats easier (both on them and on me)?
I think they are actually playing! A somewhat raw play here in the beginning, with a touch of dominance by that resident boy - but it sounds like play by your description! Definitely.

If so, it will be easier and easier for now.

You can also try a Feliway diffuser if you wish, cant never hurt. Although not necessary if the big thoroough break is already done.

Welcome to the Forums!

Good luck!
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It just drives me nuts that they are sniffing at each other, nose-to-nose one minute, then playing/fighting the next!
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I don't know that it sounds like playing. To me it sounds like they are working out hierarchy. Johnny is trying to show that he's the boss and maybe even chase her away from his territory. The other cat will not seem distressed if it's play, even rough play. It sounds to me that he is not happy about her presence.

Fortunately it's not too late to do a proper introduction. If their relationship is not working out you need to start over and re-introduce them just like they had never met before. That's usually what you do when cats clash, especially with a new cat.
Read as much as you can about introducing, and re-introducing, cats and follow the advice. It's a pain in the butt but it's necessary for your cats' long term happiness.
As long as you have a room where you can close the door you can do it. It doesn't have to be a special spare room. The bedroom will do. Johnny will have to stay in the rest of the house. If you're in a studio keeping Cid in the bathroom will do if there are no other options.
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I have heard they try to have one be the boss. Fortunately, at my house someone already is. No dispute.
The junor female makes rumbles at the younger males. But I never interfere. Fur does fly. I have time out in another part of the house for one. But I can't say who starts it.
I hope you can get yours to get along
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I have 2 cats, but I got them at the same time. To me that doesn't sound like playing. I know it's not optimal, but I would use a bathroom to separate them and re-introduce over time. Good luck!!
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The thing that confuses me is that the fighting/playing is not occuring at all times. Like tonight, I had one cat on each end of the couch, sleeping peacefully.

If I do separate them, and put Cid in a safe room, won't she be distressed because she has already explored the rest of the apartment? It doesn't seem "fair."
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Sorry I'm late, but I wouldn't expect them to be fighting/playing ALL the time. 

 

Neither of my cats seemed distressed.  I put a litter box, food, water, and a few toys and I went in there frequently to have 1 on 1 time.  You could rotate them out of the bathroom.  This may also help because they would get used to each other's smell fairly quickly.

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