Now, this will sound very strange to you, I know, but hubby and self need to get married by September. Israel has some very strange marriage laws. For Jewish citizens of Israel, only Orthodox marriages are recognized by the state of Israel. Most people comply and marry that way, even if they are totally secular, even atheists just to avoid problems. Hubby and me refused to follow the norm. As we are not Orthodox, we didn't wish to have an Orthodox wedding and declared a civil marriage. That is fine with everyone around us and everyone we know accepts us as married, but the autorities don't.
Now for the real strange law. The state of Israel does recognize any kind of marriage as legal if it is held outside of Israel. It doesn't have to be a religious marriage. Even a Vegas express wedding is more legal than a formal wedding carried out by a non-Orthodox rabbi in Israel! It's very annoying, as it means that in order to stick to our principles and have a legal status of a married couple, we need to have a marriage carried outside of Israel.
Now, for income tax purposes, we decided to go through with the overseas marriage as well (how romantic...
) and the question is where?
The most reasonable place is Cyprus. It's less than an hour's flight and you can get married within days. It's the most popular wedding destination in Israel (we're not the only ones with principles
). That also means that it's not cheap. They know that thousands of Israeli couples need them for marriage purposes every year so they charge around 350$ for the marriage license alone! They also require all sorts of legal documents that need to be translated into English and approved at the cost of an extra 100$ or so. And then there's the price of flights and hotels.
Italy is another nearby option and I'm looking into that as well.
The US is actually another popular marriage destination for Israelis. I don't think I'd want to fly so far away with this pregnancy of mine. It seems too risky. But I am looking into that option as well, as it would give us a chance to see the US together and have a nice "honeymoon" before we have kids.
Any recommendations anyone? What are the prices and requirements for a marriage license where you live?
Now for the real strange law. The state of Israel does recognize any kind of marriage as legal if it is held outside of Israel. It doesn't have to be a religious marriage. Even a Vegas express wedding is more legal than a formal wedding carried out by a non-Orthodox rabbi in Israel! It's very annoying, as it means that in order to stick to our principles and have a legal status of a married couple, we need to have a marriage carried outside of Israel.
Now, for income tax purposes, we decided to go through with the overseas marriage as well (how romantic...
The most reasonable place is Cyprus. It's less than an hour's flight and you can get married within days. It's the most popular wedding destination in Israel (we're not the only ones with principles
Italy is another nearby option and I'm looking into that as well.
The US is actually another popular marriage destination for Israelis. I don't think I'd want to fly so far away with this pregnancy of mine. It seems too risky. But I am looking into that option as well, as it would give us a chance to see the US together and have a nice "honeymoon" before we have kids.
Any recommendations anyone? What are the prices and requirements for a marriage license where you live?