Hi, I am the lowly servant of Sayuri - a beautiful black and white long-haired domestic. Sayuri came to me in mid-August after her previous owner died. Sayuri is about nine years old and has the softest fur imaginable. She is my first kitty and it's been quite a learning curve. She has gone through several personality changes since I got her. In the beginning she was incredibly docile and craved affection. I think she was struggling with all the changes - moving apartments, changing owners etc. Gradually her personality emerged as she began to feel more secure. She has a temper! Lately, however, her claws and teeth have been making a constant appearance. I have, I admit, been guilty of cuddling her too much. Now she shuns every attempt to pick her up for a cuddle and immediately bites, hisses and swipes. She's a gorgeous cat but I fear I have turned her into a monster by petting her too much! Help!!! I need advice!