Question for people who doesn't foster pets

ziggy'smom

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As most people know, I'm sure, there is always a huge shortage of foster homes for both dogs and cats. A lot of people don't want to have new pets coming and going all the time and deal with the hassle of introductions with existing pets or with pets that may be sick and need extra care. I guess most don't want to take on the commitment of being a foster parent. But, I was thinking, that although devoted foster homes are desperately needed it may be a good idea to recruit people to foster just one time. If everyone in the country that can have a pet for a short time would foster just one animal once millions of animals could be saved.
So, I'm wondering, for those who don't foster would you be willing to foster a cat or dog one time? If signing up with a rescue or shelter as a foster home would just mean that you would foster once would you be more likely to take that step? If you are not willing or able to foster once why is that?
I'd love to hear from a lot of people.

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When it comes to fostering, you are never required to do it a certain amount of times. Signing up does not mean that you have to do it more than once or that you have to do it forever.
I don't think telling a family that they will only have to do it once will change anything.
 

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I am not interested in having pets around that aren't going to be staying here. I fall in love way too deeply and quickly and wouldn't want to keep breaking my heart!

Also, Trout is an only child and she will be until she passes away.
 

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I know for me personally even only having to do it once would be too much. Not because I dont care because I do but because I literally dont have the space. Im over my limit as it is with inside animals plus we get jerk offs who drop off cats all the time on the farm because they see barns and think oh this is good. Its not. We spend more time burying cats that get dropped off then we do actually spend time trying to catch them, feed them or anything. We live on a busy road so cats get hit all the time. We have found little kittens drowned in our well pump container. We find cats that are sick and died. Its hard on us as it is because we feel HORRIBLE that we literally can only do so much.

We are working right now on getting something set up with a vet or a clinic to get all the farm cats tnred and eventually hopefully finding homes for them. I have 7 outside cats that have managed to figure out that they are safe if they stay close to the house and live in the numerous barns and sheds on the farm and come up to eat on the back porch.
 

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If I didn't live in an apartment I would love to foster, although I think I'd end up never giving them up lol. My apartment charges out the wazoo more then 1 pet so with my buget I wouldn't be able to afford to foster when I already have a cat. Plus, we don't really have a good "safe" room to hold a foster.
 

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I rent with a 2 pet limit and I have 2 pets so fostering isn't possible. It would be hard for me to give them up though especially the adults and the black cats would be the hardest. Black adult cats get adopted so rarely and I wouldn't want to think about what happens when they go back. Even if it's a good no kill shelter it still isn't the same as being in a home.
 

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my apartment limits to 2 pets only. If I had a house, plenty of room and a spare room where my current pets would never have to meet the foster, I'd so be willing. Just the time and place isn't right for me right now.
 

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While it can be heartbreaking taking a foster back, it's great knowing you have given a life a new start. Our shelter often needs to place a number of fosters in a hurry. They needed to park 5 or 6 adults or litters this weekend.
 

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At one time I ran a bird and exotics rescue from my home in cooperation with King County Animal Control in Seattle.
There was a dire need mostly for bird and reptile rescue.
At one time I had 57 birds in my bird room of 8 different species.
It completely wiped out my savings.

When I moved to Needles, I caught and fostered three litters of feral kittens on my own with no outside help. Thing is, I lived in a tiny trailer.
I did send them all (except Jade!) to San Diego as they'd have a better chance of finding homes in a more populace area.
I am very happy to say I get regular updates on all of them, 4 years later


Once I find myself with the space, I will do it again in a heartbeat!
 

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Originally Posted by mrblanche

While it can be heartbreaking taking a foster back, it's great knowing you have given a life a new start. Our shelter often needs to place a number of fosters in a hurry. They needed to park 5 or 6 adults or litters this weekend.


I let them go knowing I can then help MORE kitties who need me, but that doesn't mean that each and every kitty who comes into my home doesn't have a place in my heart, because they all absolutely do.


I absolutely get that not everyone is in the position to be able to foster, and I know that others just won't be able to handle it because there can be a LOT of heartache and rough patches, but trust me, if you DO have the time, space and ability to do so, fostering is by far the most fulfilling thing in the entire world.
 

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I'd love to be able to foster, but it's a no go with Jamie. We've taken in sick cats from the local shelter for a couple of days or a week or so and confined them to a bedroom, but Jamie flips out when other cats are around.

A dog wouldn't work simply because of our current working hours.
 

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It isn't possible for me- DH and I both work 10-12 hour days at times, and poor Peanut probably feels like he owns this house by himself for all that he's here alone!
 

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I can't-I have to many cats. I do TNR on my own but they are ferals who I only hold a few days in a crate. If my numbers go lower in many many years(...
) I would foster bottle babies and feral kittens who need to be tamed. Just had to turn down a litter as I know it would be to much for me
 

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I would love to foster, but I'm currently a full time student and living in an apartment so it's not possible. Maybe some day, though. I'm afraid I wouldn't be able to give them up!
 

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our house it just really isnt possible to take in anything that has not been checked by a vet and we know isnt sick. the only rooms we can close off are our garage and our guest bed, and our guest bedroom we keep cat free because of our friends who are allergic to them.
I feel like if I started to foster we would end up with a zoo, and it would cause a lot of issues and heartbreak with mine and gary's relationship.
HOWEVER we are in the process of becoming fosters for guardian angels for soldiers pets. They are a group that takes in pets for the soldiers while they are overseas. That way you know the pet has a family that loves it very much, and you are just a temporary home. I think it would be a much better fit for us right now
 

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Before we adopted our cats, I considered fostering. DH, who knows me very well, said that if brought in a foster cat(s), they would leave our house only when they were pried out of my cold dead hands. He's right, I'm sure.

In any case, I don't really think it would be fair to my cats to bring in strange cats that come and go.

If I ever came into a ton of money, one thing I would do would be to donate a huge chuck to the shelter where I got my babies so they could open up a second shelter closer to me, and I would volunteer there.

I admire people who do take fosters - but do you really feel its good for your permanent pets to have strange cats coming and going?
 

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Originally Posted by Misty8723

I admire people who do take fosters - but do you really feel its good for your permanent pets to have strange cats coming and going?
Mine couldn't care less! Most of the times my fosters are separated from our own cats anyway. The only exceptions are social cats/kittens who have clean bill of health and who don't stress my own out. They are so used to other cats by now, it doesn't phase them at all.
 

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I get too attached to animals to be able to foster. I would end up being the one who adopted in the end.

Now on the other hand I have taken in strays, took them to the vet for treatments, shots, spaying/neurtering, and then rehomed them. But it was very very hard for me to do. My heart broke and I cried and cried after they were gone. So I can't do it anymore.
 

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Originally Posted by Ziggy'smom

If you are not willing or able to foster once why is that?
2 reasons:
My mother
My father
 

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Actually hubby and I have both decided that when Mattie and Muffin are gone, we want no more cats. However, I know we will miss cats terribly as we have had them most of our thirty one years of marriage. I have discussed fostering at that time with my hubby and we have decided we might just do it. I think I could deal okay with having cats, knowing they are not ours and our only commitment is to find them a home. We will see when the time comes.
 
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