Hi everyone, i thought i would do a post to try to help anyone who is having problems in multi cat households with one cat bullying another. Our life was complete hell, our older cat just would not tolerate our younger cat, we could not have them in the same room, without him attacking her (they are both neutered and spayed) he would make this awful catowalling and grabbing her round the neck biting her and making her scream with terror, if he saw her in the garden he would stalk her to attack, life was a nightmare and unbelievably stressful and he would spray everywhere all over the house, trying to keep two cats apart in one household, constantly having to watch them, having to keep one in while the other was out, ect, and if someone accidentally left the door open, he would be through attacking her. Numerous visits to the vet to try to get help with the aggression cost a fortune and didnt help, hundreds of pounds on feliway plug ins did nothing, i was at my wits end, and at this point willing to try anything! my heart broke for my younger cat who is such a sweet gentle little thing, keeping her inside when she loves to go out was awful too.
I came across an article after extensive searching, about the use of back flower remedies for cats, i had no hope in my heart but like i said i was so desperate i was willing to try anything!
i ordered a bottle of bach flower remedies Vine, which is for bullying aggressive behaviour, and started putting a dab on our male cats forehead and paws daily, and a couple of drops in his water, after two weeks there was no change and i was ready to throw in the towel, but i persevered, thank god i did!
A few weeks later we started to see a dramatic change in his behaviour, the spraying stopped which was a miracle in itself, he seemed much calmer and happier in himself, we started to introduce them again, shocked and delighted that he did not immediately attack her, to cut a long story short, the Vine has worked a miracle, he is now the sweetest big old soppy boy, and he has never attacked our little girl since. They even play together now, he tolerates her, and there is no aggression towards her, i continue to use the Vine on him, and cant reccomend it enough for anyone with this problem, as believe me i cant stress how bad it was before, now life is peaceful again, and i have two happy cats, if you have a problem with bullying cats please try the Vine, it worked for us.
I came across an article after extensive searching, about the use of back flower remedies for cats, i had no hope in my heart but like i said i was so desperate i was willing to try anything!
i ordered a bottle of bach flower remedies Vine, which is for bullying aggressive behaviour, and started putting a dab on our male cats forehead and paws daily, and a couple of drops in his water, after two weeks there was no change and i was ready to throw in the towel, but i persevered, thank god i did!
A few weeks later we started to see a dramatic change in his behaviour, the spraying stopped which was a miracle in itself, he seemed much calmer and happier in himself, we started to introduce them again, shocked and delighted that he did not immediately attack her, to cut a long story short, the Vine has worked a miracle, he is now the sweetest big old soppy boy, and he has never attacked our little girl since. They even play together now, he tolerates her, and there is no aggression towards her, i continue to use the Vine on him, and cant reccomend it enough for anyone with this problem, as believe me i cant stress how bad it was before, now life is peaceful again, and i have two happy cats, if you have a problem with bullying cats please try the Vine, it worked for us.
